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20-40-60 Etiquette: Time for the Heart Ball!

The 20-40-60 Etiquette panel helps a reader figure out what to wear to the American Heart Association Heart Ball in Oklahoma City, with the ball's chairman, Terri Bailey, weighing in as guest.
By Lillie-Beth Brinkman and Helen Ford Wallace Published: February 10, 2013

QUESTION: My little sister is a Sweetheart in this year's American Heart Association Heart Ball. My husband and I have never been to an event like this. I know it is formal but is there a dress code or an event attire thing I should be looking at? I just don't want to embarrass her!

CALLIE'S ANSWER: A cocktail dress will be perfect for this event and will not embarrass her! Have fun!

LILLIE-BETH'S ANSWER: The Oklahoma City Heart Ball, to be held on Feb. 23, is a formal event, and one of the bigger ones in Oklahoma City, so go as formal as you can. Sales associates at any of the local boutique stores would be glad to help you pick something out.

A floor-length gown or a formal and elegant short dress would be appropriate for you and a tuxedo would be for your husband.

My friend Kara Locke, who is on the Heart Ball auction committee, told me that a lovely black dress would also work and not take away any of the spotlight from your sister, as long as your sister isn't wearing black.

More importantly, enjoy the evening and know that you're dressed up for a good cause — to raise money for the American Heart Association — and for your sister.

HELEN'S ANSWER: The Heart Ball is one of the prettiest events and most fun events during the year. Formal usually means a long dress for women and black tie attire for men. All of the Sweethearts will be in long dresses, but I imagine you will also see some short, fancy, formal dresses among the guests.

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by Lillie-Beth Brinkman
Assistant Features Editor
Lillie-Beth Brinkman currently is assistant features editor for The Oklahoman/NewsOK.com. She writes a weekly column about apps called "Get App-y" and contributes to the etiquette column 20-40-60. She also helps manage coverage of travel and...
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by Helen Ford Wallace
Society Editor
Helen Ford Wallace is a columnist covering society-related events/news for The Oklahoman. She puts local parties online with daily updates. She creates, maintains and runs a Parties blog which includes web casts. She is an online web editor for...
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