That being said, it is possible to find kind, eligible gentlemen. It's all about location. Try to meet men that share similar interests. That could be doing a hobby, volunteering for a nonprofit organization or attending church. And, friends are a great resource. Get them to help if you're serious about finding a man with certain conduct.
Yes, decent men are scarce these days. Maybe even considered endangered. However, if you want to snare one of these rare species with a good heart, ultimately you have to put yourself out there.
Callie Gordon is twenty-something, Lillie-Beth Brinkman is in her 40s, and social columnist Helen Ford Wallace is 60-plus. To ask an etiquette question, email helen. firstname.lastname@example.org. For more 20-40-60 etiquette, go to blog.newsok.com/partiesextra.