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‘I believe she prayed them into heaven'
‘I believe she prayed them into heaven'

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Published: August 22, 2007

CARNEGIE — Relatives of three women who drowned together Sunday in a flash flood have found peace in the evidence of their loved ones' final moments.

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Authorities found Dorita Horse, her daughter Helen Horse, and niece Rose Saddleblanket huddled together in the back seat of their submerged van. The three were swept off a darkened state highway south of Carnegie shortly after midnight by a raging river of rainwater.

"Mom was in the middle,” said Alpha Marie Goombi, one of Dorita Horse's 11 children. "In that brief amount of time, when they knew they were going to die, I believe Mom tried to comfort them. I believe she prayed them into heaven.

"And I believe Jesus was right there with them.”

A memorial service will be tonight for the three women at Red Buffalo Hall on the Kiowa Tribal Complex in Carnegie. Services will begin at 7, and the public is invited.

Their funeral will begin at 10 a.m. Thursday at the same location.

Dorita Horse, 77, was the wife of Kiowa Chairman Billy Evans Horse. The two were wed May 12, 1950, in a traditionally arranged marriage, and recently celebrated their 57th wedding anniversary.

Dorita Horse was well-known throughout the powwow circuit as a traditional chorus girl singer, and faithful member of the Botone Memorial United Methodist Church. She will also be remembered by family and friends as someone who unselfishly gave of herself in service.

"Mom always told us to love everyone,” said Catherine Horse, Dorita Horse's daughter. "She always told us to see people the way God sees them.”

Helen Horse, 34, held a "special bond” with her mother, said Bessie James, Helen's sister.

"They had a special relationship. They went everywhere together, and Helen was always right there to help,” James said.

Helen Horse, who possessed a talent for riding horses in her younger days, also served in the Kiowa Volunteer Fire Department. In 2003, she was on a crew of firefighters that helped in the recovery of the Columbia space shuttle wreckage in Texas.

Saddleblanket, 16, was considered a "little sister” by members of the Horse family. She joined the immediate family in 2005 after the death of her father, Otis Horse, the tribal chairman's youngest brother.

"She began attending Riverside Indian School so she could touch base with her roots,” James said. "On the weekends, she couldn't wait to get a pass to come home. Seems like every time I went to Mom and Dad's, I'd see her there.

"She was like our little sister.”

Dorita once attended the Riverside Boarding School as an orphaned child, and despite being enrolled as an Apache, was promised by a family elder to marry Billy Evans Horse.

"She picked up a lot of the language and song and really embraced the Kiowa heritage,” Alpha Marie Goombi said.

Catherine Horse smiled, adding, "A lot of people thought she was Kiowa.”

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This piece is a very moving tribute to these three women. I did not know them and I am not from Oklahoma. But the loving tributes puts them in the heart of the family they leave behind. Thank you for publishing this story. They will be missed and the article very directly evokes their families' love and the qualities for which their families loved them so much.
R, Hilliard - Aug 25, 2007 at 3:19 pm
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My heart, love and prayers goes out to everyone, I find it so difficult to grasp the thought of this tragedy. Billy, Charlie, Matt, Mary, Dallas my heart bleeds for you. What do you say in a momemt like this when you can't find the words, I just close my eyes and let my heart lead the way. I pray for you every day. Dorita, Helen and Rose...we love you and always will. You were family to us. We will always be there for Billy and your children.
Kristin, Lakeland - Aug 24, 2007 at 8:32 am
My heart goes out to my grandfather Billy evans Horse whom I was named after....My grandmother and Aunt are gone..but the words my grandmother left the last time I talked to her..I just had done given birth to their great granchild one of the youngest 4th generation grandbaby boy..a huge feat since he was 8.5 pounds My grandma dorita had said:Don't ever leave your baby,be a good mother and love him nomatter what you go through,your all he has be a good mother and never leave your babies" she then had a smile in her voice this was via phone she then said "I love you"
that was the last thing we said to each other and thats what I'll carry with me forever her words now we just got to be strong for our grandpa Billy..I love you grandma,Auntie,cousin...We'll take good are of grandpa..
Billie
KAT, el reno - Aug 24, 2007 at 4:45 am
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We are so sorry for the lost of our dear sweet Rose. We will miss her. Be strong Bonita, she is with God now. Our love Dad and Kathy Stoehr
Kathryn/or Bill, Stockbridge - Aug 22, 2007 at 8:23 am

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