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Financial guru was once credit crunched

 
By Sonya Colberg | Published: October 2, 2008    Comment on this article Leave a comment

She had it all. Marcia Brixey had a nice house, a good job, a loving husband with a good job, cool vacations, a cute dog named Arfie ... and a big secret.

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GOING ON
Journey to financial freedom
Who: Marcia Brixey, founder of Money Wise Women Educational Services.

What: "Do It Herself: A Journey to Financial Freedom,” focuses on investing, basic budgeting, estate planning, getting out of debt, reducing taxable income, identity theft and retirement planning.

When: 8:30 a.m. to 4 p.m. Oct. 10.

Where: Clarion Meridian Convention Center, 737 S Meridian.

More information: Go online to www.oscpa.com or call (800) 522-8261, ext. 3806.


GENDER GAP
Women face different challenges
If you’re a woman:

→You probably earn less than a man. Oklahoma women earned about 75.8 percent of what men earned in 2002.

→You’ll need to save 2 percent more than a man every year over 30 years in order to maintain your standard of living after retirement.

→You’ll likely live longer than your husband – an average of 22 years after retirement at 65, compared to 19 years for men.

→There’s a fair chance you don’t participate in a retirement plan (just 47 percent participated, according to a March 2005 U.S. government study).

→You’re more likely to avoid the risk of investing for fear of losing money.

Sources: Institute for Women’s Policy Research; National Center for Women & Retirement Research; Hewitt Research; U.S. Department of Labor; The Female Factor 2008: Why Women are at Great Financial Risk in Retirement.

Then one day, Marcia Brixey’s dog, Arfie, gobbled down a ham bone and became so ill, he had to be rushed to the veterinarian for emergency surgery.

The Brixeys were overjoyed that their beloved Schnauzer-poodle mix survived, but the ordeal was not over. The second shock hit with the arrival of the vet’s bill for $1,200.

They didn’t have the money and couldn’t put it on their maxed out credit cards. They had to borrow from Brixey’s parents.

"I never want to be in that situation again,” Brixey, 53, said.

Secrets
Brixey’s here to tell you she and her husband had a secret $10,000 credit card mess that they overcame, and so can you. She now helps people free their financial jams and has written a book, "The Money Therapist: A Woman’s Guide to Creating a Healthy Financial Life.” She’ll speak in Oklahoma City on Oct. 10.

Brixey found it was easy for her and her husband, Steve, to rack up $10,000 in credit card debt.

"We had a really good reason for that, but I don’t remember what it was,” she said with a laugh.

People are definitely secretive about credit card debt, said Jennifer Wallis, 36, vice president of Consumer Credit Counseling Service of Central Oklahoma, which provides free credit counseling. It’s not unusual for people to keep debts from their spouses or best friends.

"To a lot of people, it’s a shameful secret,” Wallis said.

The appeal
"It’s just not very sexy,” Brixey said wearily about credit card debt.

But sexy is the feeling of freedom when you get credit card debt under control, she and other experts say.

"Credit card debt is the No. 1 reason people call us,” Wallis said.

All people need to know they aren’t the only ones in a credit card bind, she said. And with the right tools and education, it’s fairly simple to get out. Wallis said about two-thirds of her clients manage to break the credit card bind after they’ve adopted some lifestyle changes and become aware of spending habits. Another one-third need the service’s debt management plan, which costs a set-up fee of $40 and a sliding fee of up to $35 per month.

Getting started
Brixey started digging out of debt by asking her credit card company for a lower interest rate.

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