Be cheap with yourself but generous with others
Dear Mary: Recently, we were invited to celebrate my sister-in-law's 50th birthday at an expensive restaurant. My brother informed us that he cannot afford to buy us dinner, so we will have to pay for our own meals. My husband and I would like to get the "birthday girl" a gift but feel a bit strange about the invitation. What is the proper response? — Deborah S., Wisconsin
Dear Deborah: Here's a principle to live ...
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