20-40-60...We got mail!


Posted February 9, 2010 by Helen Ford Wallace Comment on this article Leave a comment

Callie, Lillie-Beth and I have received five e-mail letters about 20-40-60.   Here they are, unsigned, with links to the particular columns.

1. “20-40-60. Your answers are outstanding! All of them are great! I forwarded it to my husband and we decided we have a new plan of attack. We need to set boundaries – politely. I guess we were maybe too intimidated to do that, but I think you all are right. Better late than never! And I love the suggestion to put them to work!

“Thanks for answering my question!”

20-40-60 column posted on Parties Extra! blog on Jan. 21, 2010 :)


2. “Hello – 20-40-60 Etiquette Gurus

“Here is a little point of interest that has endured time in the hospital setting (I was instructed when I began working at OUHSC. ) Doctors are always addressed by their colleagues, assistants and patients as “Doctor”.  When addressing the boss in front of a client or patient it would be very impertinent to call him/herby their first name.

“It would might imply to others that the two individuals were on a more personal basis and not all business.   You do not speak to doctors in the halls unless they speak to you first. ( that old ‘don’t speak until called upon’).

“These seemingly old fashioned rules are in fact ( as told to me ) important to maintain the serious nature of hospital business.”

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