Finally, ask God to help you be an example of grace and kindness to your family — especially those you seldom see. It could do much to calm some who might otherwise be tempted to speak critically or unwisely. The Bible says, “As God's chosen people ... clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience” (Colossians 3:12).

Send your queries to “My Answer,” c/o Billy Graham, Billy Graham Evangelistic Association, 1 Billy Graham Parkway, Charlotte, N.C., 28201; call 1-(877) 2-GRAHAM, or visit the website for the Billy Graham Evangelistic Association: www.billygraham.org.

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