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Brother ruins sister's relationships

John Gray gives readers advice about their relationships.
BY John Gray Published: June 13, 2013

DEAR DEVIL WOES: You're concerned about one of two things: Either you're worried that she won't get the message, or you're afraid that he truly doesn't want to give her the message in the first place.

As to the first concern, you should trust him to handle it in the way that works best for him. After all, he knows her better than you do.

But I believe the second concern is your real issue. If that's correct, you have to be honest with him about your doubts. Tell him that you love him, and that you need reassurance that he also loves you. Ask him to let you know if he has doubts about you as a couple, or if he is interested in anyone else. I think he'll reassure you that you're the only woman in his life. If so, trust him to handle the situation in a way that works for him.

John Gray is the author of “Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus.” Send email to All questions are kept anonymous, and will be paraphrased.


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