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Couple's lack of intimacy is only flaw of relationship

Modified: February 5, 2013 at 11:03 pm •  Published: February 7, 2013

DEAR ABBY: I have been divorced for eight years. My daughter is learning how to drive. In her mother's car, while under her mother's supervision, she hit their garage door.

My ex believes I should pay half the cost of the new garage door. Also, she did a total upgrade, turning the entrance to the garage into one large door instead of two. I say I shouldn't have to pay. She says if it was someone else's house we would pay. I agree, but it is not, and my ex-wife was in the car — not me.

Who Pays? in California

DEAR WHO PAYS?: She pays. It should not be your responsibility to foot half the bill for an upgrade to your ex's garage door, particularly because she was the one with your daughter when the accident occurred. Don't let her bamboozle you.

DEAR ABBY: I'm not too tall or too short. I'm not overweight or too thin. I never receive comments about my appearance that cause me to be sensitive. My husband doesn't drink, abuse me or stray. I have had no problems through the years with family members, neighbors or co-workers. My grown children are thoughtful, considerate and loving. Even my in-laws love me.

So tell me, did you ever receive a letter such as this?

Joy, San Diego

DEAR JOY: Not in recent history. And it's probably because people regard my column as a place to dump their troubles rather than share their blessings, as you have done today.

Write Dear Abby at or P.O. Box 69440, Los Angeles, CA 90069.