one of her first competitions, her blood sugar dropped dangerously low, and she fell off her horse before a competition.
"We don't have to remind her of that too often,” said Virginia Hames, Madison's trainer. "She knows what she needs to do. Sometimes she likes to pretend that it doesn't exist, but it's never happened again. As a person she's no different; we don't treat her special. It's up to her. We always like to say it's like a diet that she can't cheat on.”
The pump is like a part of her body, said Madison, a bubbly teenager with brown hair and an easy smile. She doesn't like to talk about herself, and like most girls her age, her first answer to most questions is "I don't know,” followed by an infectious laugh. Madison is, however, serious when she talks about the goals she has for herself.
She wants to ride on a collegiate equestrian team and eventually own and operate her own stable and training center. But the road ahead won't be easy. School is a daily challenge, sometimes more than the equations of checking her blood sugar.
When asked if she likes school, she answers with a quick, "No.”
"I realize that I have to do things I don't like to do, and that makes me better,” Madison said. "But everything has a silver lining. Sometimes you just have to find it.”
Valuing each moment
The Gays have always had animals and even ran a pumpkin patch for a brief stint, but they would call themselves horse people, Judy Gay said.
Madison never grew out of her love of horses. So when her dad brought Gallion home, it was time for her to show her parents she was serious.
"I used to see her out there trying to ride that horse and I'd be scared to death,” Judy Gay said. "But she just kept going.”
As a parent, Judy Gay could have a lot to be scared about. Her oldest child, Morgan, 20, suffers from a seizure disorder that prohibits her from having a driver's license. Morgan Gay attends Redlands Community College on a golf scholarship and was part of a Purcell team that won three straight Class 3A titles.
Morgan Gay has a seizure almost daily, Judy Gay said.
The Gays also have a son, Chase, who stands well over 6 feet tall and plays basketball at Oklahoma City University. Chase, 19, has no chronic health problems. But when someone in the family has a disease, everyone is affected, Gay said.
"When we found out Madison had diabetes, it was right after Morgan had been diagnosed,” Gay said.
"It was like, ‘When is the next freight train going to come and hit us?' Not many people hope that two out of their three kids are going to wake up in the morning. It makes you value every little moment.”