A: We were in the same class at OU, but didn't meet until the summer after we graduated. The girlfriend I roomed with and her boyfriend, who was Lee's buddy, individually invited us to watch the July Fourth fireworks at a park in Norman. Then that day, after Lee was already at our house, they called at the last minute from out of town to back out. They so did it on purpose. We were engaged two months later and married that January. It was the most impulsive thing I've ever done. We were really good friends, and I just knew he was it.
Q: Did you have a career before banking?
A: I earned my degree in advertising, and, for three or four years, worked in journalism. My senior year at OU, a few of my professors talked me into buying an interest in The Cleveland County Reporter weekly newspaper, and my dad cosigned on the loan with me. As the youngest publisher in the state at the time, I did everything — from write articles to sell advertising to paste-up, frequently working 'til two or three in the morning. I sold the newspaper when I got pregnant with Lauren.
Q: What led you into banking?
A: The oil bust. The bank had to let go its advertising agency, because they were cutting expenses any way we could. Lee came home and asked if I'd handle the advertising for free. At first, I went in for a few hours, while the kids were in preschool. Then, the bank started getting demanding, wanting me to have set hours. I said they'd have to pay me. I worked part time for about a year before coming on full time. And, as time went on and I learned the business, I started taking on more projects, like starting our call centers and adding branches. Today, we have 28 locations.
Q: How is it working with your husband?
A: We take different cars to work and, unless we're in a meeting, we see each other only five to 10 minutes a day. Now that the kids are out of the house, we do talk business for about 30 minutes in the evening about our respective work days and any issues. We have different styles that complement each other. A processor, Lee typically thinks through every angle before he takes a position on something. Conversely, I'm a debater. I like to throw out what I think we should do, then beat it up and modify it.