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Family thank-notes

Everyone loves receiving handwritten thank-you notes. This is a great way to teach children to express gratitude—send out family thank-you notes.
Becky Rickman, FamilyShare Modified: September 2, 2014 at 9:57 pm •  Published: September 5, 2014

I have recently received a number of thank-you notes, and they made my day. They are almost a lost art, but receiving these has reactivated my desire to let people know when I am thankful.

Teaching our children to express their own gratitude now will help them when they are older. It's an easy and inexpensive way to teach them to think about what they have to be thankful for.

Start out by writing family thank-yous.

Go to the dollar store

You'll want to go gung-ho on this, so stock up on nice little packets of thank-you notes. I've gotten really lovely ones at the dollar store, yard sales and thrift shops.

Display them

Place them in a nice wicker basket or pottery bowl somewhere prominent in your home. This allows everyone to see them and keeps them thinking about what they are thankful for.


As a family, at dinner or any other gathering, discuss who you are thankful for. Mention thank-you notes that you have received, and how they made you feel. Thank-you cards aren't just for birthday or wedding gifts. They will brighten the day of anyone who has done something you appreciate. Think about clergy, teachers, the mailman, the grocery store clerk, the librarian who checks out your books, the guy who fixed the brakes on your car. Try to meet weekly, and have someone write a list.

Share the fun

Rotate the scribe who writes out the card so that everyone gets practice. One person each week writes out the cards and sees to it that everyone signs it. Include toddlers and their scribbles.


Let the children know that the thank you should be heartfelt, but doesn't need to be a dissertation. A simple thank you should mention exactly what it is for — gift, sermon, smile, thoughtfulness, funny joke — and how it made you feel. That is enough. That way they won't get overwhelmed at what to write.

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