Getting involved, prioritizing can help smooth transition to college life

 
BY DARLA SLIPKE | Published: November 7, 2010    Comment on this article Leave a comment

To be a successful college student, sometimes Oklahoma City University sophomore Emma Velez has to turn down a dinner invitation from friends so she can work on a paper.

photo - Students eat lunch in the basement of a chapel at Oklahoma City University on a Wednesday afternoon in October. Students participated in a free lunch and other activities during "Wednesday at the Wesley.” Photos by David McDaniel, The Oklahoman
Students eat lunch in the basement of a chapel at Oklahoma City University on a Wednesday afternoon in October. Students participated in a free lunch and other activities during "Wednesday at the Wesley.” Photos by David McDaniel, The Oklahoman

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Other times, a movie night or "Glee” marathon is just what she needs.

Students encounter many challenges and new responsibilities when they enter college. One of the biggest is finding a balance between school work and other activities.

Velez, a philosophy and political science student from Little Axe, makes school work a top priority, but she still finds time for friends and social outings. She encourages new students to do the same.

"Don't be so overcommitted in your academics that you neglect those times going out with friends,” Velez said.

Finding a balance can be difficult for students who are not used to the freedom and responsibilities of college life. Learning to prioritize and developing time management skills can help, said Lee Hall, assistant director of student life at Oklahoma City University.

Adjusting to life with a roommate also can be difficult, but learning to get along and solve disputes are important skills students will use throughout their lives, Hall said. She encouraged students to be flexible and to have the courage to talk about what doesn't work.

"Most of it really comes down to being a good communicator and not being afraid to say what you need,” Hall said.

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