Glenn Spencer, Jeannine Edwards have an abnormal, long-distance relationship that works

The Oklahoma State assistant football coach and ESPN sideline reporter will marry Friday in New Jersey.
by Gina Mizell Modified: July 12, 2013 at 12:00 pm •  Published: July 11, 2013
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STILLWATER — The one-acre yard surrounding Glenn Spencer's Stillwater home is now enclosed by a three-rail fence with mesh wiring.

It's designed to prevent dogs from running away — but not necessarily either of Spencer's canine pals. His lab, Max, and beagle, Tezzie, have already been trained by the shock collar invisible fence.

Jeannine Edwards, however, isn't big on that philosophy for her lab, Susie.

“I hate those stupid things,” Edwards said with a chuckle. “I asked him if he wouldn't mind fencing in the yard for Susie because, yeah, I just don't think those things are great.”

It's a concession Spencer is more than happy to make for his soon-to-be wife.

This unconventional love story features a deep connection formed between a college football assistant coach and an ESPN sideline reporter, who were first linked through tragedy on a day they never actually met. It's a romance that grew in almost purely long-distance fashion between an East Coast gal and a man in Middle America. It's a relationship that escalated both gradually and rapidly over a period of about 18 months.

And the arrangement will continue to be a bit abnormal even after Spencer and Edwards marry Friday in Tenafly, N.J.

They'll still spend multiple days separated each week because of their demanding jobs that come with plenty of travel and attention from the outside world. In a way, what originally brought them together will continue to keep them apart.

Proximity hasn't ever really been a luxury for Spencer and Edwards. Not much of any of it has been normal, really.

Yet building that fence represents the start of Spencer and Edwards building their life together — not just for the first time in the same home, but for the first time in the same state.

They unexpectedly fell in love. They've managed until now. And they'll continue to manage as husband and wife.

“We kind of knew what we were up against from the start,” Spencer said “ ... It's tough sometimes, and there has to be an unbelievable amount of trust and love and commitment. And there has been from both of us.

“That's the only reason that it's worked.”

***

The origin of Spencer's and Edwards' relationship will always be connected to OSU's game against Texas A&M game in September of 2011.

That's when Spencer returned to work following the death of his wife, Angela, after she battled heart disease for 12 years. Edwards was in College Station, too, reporting on how Spencer's Cowboys honored the coach and his wife with “AS” stickers on their helmets.

Because Spencer was in the coaches' booth and Edwards on the sideline, they never actually met that day. Their first encounter came a few weeks later, when OSU hosted Baylor and Edwards' broadcast team was again assigned to cover the Cowboys.

How that first meeting exactly happened depends on which member of the couple you ask.

Edwards tells a story of seeing Spencer sitting on the bench during pregame warm-ups and approaching him to relay her condolences. Spencer claims he doesn't remember any of that, and that he instead got up off the bench to track her down on the sideline to say thank you for her work in College Station.

“We laugh about that all the time,” Edwards said.

Either way, the exchange was brief. Yet during a repeat viewing of that Texas A&M game later on, Spencer was touched by the way Edwards handled covering Angela's death. So he got a hold of Edwards' number.

A simple “thank you” text after that season eventually turned into longer messages, then phone calls.

“Your conversations get a little deeper,” Spencer said, “and you feel like you kind of open yourself up to a person and you let your guard down, and she does the same thing. And all of a sudden, a relationship blooms …

“Everybody just says how happy they are for me. They know that I had been in a valley for a long, long time. It's been a blessing and really a gift to have some happiness like that now.”

***

Spencer, the man OSU entrusted to turn around the Cowboy defense as its new coordinator, hails from Georgia and is the father of teenage boys Luke and Abe.

Edwards, a divorced Jersey girl, trained and rode horses before beginning her reporting job at ESPN in the mid-90s; a job that recently had her jetting off to cover Brad Stevens' hiring as the Boston Celtics' head coach one day and Derek Jeter's first minor league rehab start in Pennsylvania the next.

Their common ground, at least on the surface, is college football. Yet even though each says they've gained respect for the other's career, they rarely talk about work.

When asked what they bonded over instead, both mentioned the other's love of dogs. Really, that's a sign of the warm personality each possesses, even when Spencer comes from a coaching world often defined by toughness and discipline and Edwards a television world often defined by ego and celebrity status.

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by Gina Mizell
OSU Sports Reporter
Gina Mizell joined The Oklahoman in August of 2011 as the Oklahoma State beat writer, where she covered the Cowboys' historic run to the Big 12 championship and Fiesta Bowl in her first season on the job. Before arriving in Stillwater, Gina was...
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