High school golf: Putnam City North's Lorelei Decker stays positive while dealing with Hodgkin's Lymphoma

Lorelei Decker has experienced all the common feelings you'd expect from a 17-year-old cancer patient, but she has remained upbeat. Friday, the PC North soccer team is hosting a game that will double as a fundraiser for her.
by Scott Wright Published: April 5, 2012
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Spending any significant amount of time with Lorelei Decker might give you the wrong impression about the visible symptoms of cancer.

Hang out with the Putnam City North senior golfer for an hour, and you'll leave thinking Hodgkin's Lymphoma causes the inability to stop smiling, an infectious positive attitude and moments of the purest optimism.

Beneath her sunny exterior, Decker has experienced all the common feelings you'd expect from a 17-year-old cancer patient since being diagnosed in late January.

Panic. Fear. Sadness.

Thoughts that cover the spectrum of worry, ranging from her own mortality to being bald at Senior Prom.

But those moments typically don't last long with Decker, and she'll be back to thinking about how excited she is to wear her new brunette wig — “I've never been brunette before,” she says with a laugh — or the pleasure in playing a golf tournament with her team.

“Through this, I've realized that it's bigger than just a golf tournament,” Decker said. “It's about my health, and having fun. So I can relax and realize that shooting 101 in a tournament is not going to be the death of me.”

Yes, she'll need a wig for prom. But she'll get to go to prom.

And yes, her radiation treatment will increase her chances of breast cancer when she's older. “But in order to get breast cancer, I have to live through this one,” she said.

Decker is getting to be a part of some memorable moments, like her upcoming Make-A-Wish Foundation event, in which she'll be Oklahoma City Thunder coach for a day.

On Friday, the Putnam City North soccer team is hosting a game that will double as a fundraiser for Decker. She'll get to sit on the bench with the team, and the players will be wearing lime green jerseys — the awareness color for Hodgkin's Lymphoma.

She misses out on things from time to time. Her golf team was in a tournament on Thursday, but she was busy with her regular chemotherapy treatment.

Survival rate for Decker's type of cancer is 80 percent or better, and the family has been encouraged by recent blood tests.

“It was just devastating to learn that Lorelei had cancer,” said PC North golf coach Tom Jedlicka. “She's a wonderful 17-year-old lady. Nobody that age should have to go through cancer of any kind. But I do believe in miracles. She's a very strong person, and I think she'll make it just fine. She's played in two golf tournaments. For someone with cancer, that's remarkable.

“I tell her or anyone else with cancer, just stay positive, say your prayers and do what the doctors tell you.”

Jedlicka knows. He beat cancer back in 2010.

Unfortunately, he learned in March that the cancer had returned in his brain and lungs. He had surgery on March 15, and the doctors think they got out all of the brain tumor, and chemotherapy is needed for the lung cancer.

But he had to step away from coaching, which he has done at PC North since arriving at the school in 1994.

Decker's smile fades when she talks about the man affectionately known as Coach Jed. He was her teacher in the fall of 2010 and encouraged her to go out for the golf team. Three months later, Decker made varsity, and now she's a team captain.

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by Scott Wright
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A lifelong resident of the Oklahoma City metro area, Scott Wright has been on The Oklahoman staff since 2005, covering a little bit of everything on the state's sports scene. He has been a beat writer for football and basketball at Oklahoma and...
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