Husband has cheated four times

John Gray answers readers' questions about their relationships.
By John Gray Published: November 15, 2012

— Wanting it to Work, in Louisville, Ky.

DEAR WANTING: Cindy is stringing both of you along. It's her way of keeping her options open. Frankly, it's not fair to either one of you and is probably quite confusing to her two children, as well. Tell her you need a commitment, but don't hold your breath that she is willing to make it.

You've got a lot to offer some woman. Unfortunately, that woman is probably not Cindy. At this point, it would be wise of you to go back out there and find someone who can appreciate your love and who is willing to return it to you with equal devotion.

Distributed by Creators Syndicate. John Gray is the author of “Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus.” If you have a question, send email to All questions are kept anonymous, and will be paraphrased.