He remembered that shortly after Millwood built its football stadium, Mr. Carter approached him about a concrete slab near the field. Mr. Carter worried about kids running into it and injuring themselves. He thought something needed to be done.
Within the week, padding covered the concrete.
“And it was because of Mr. Carter,” Greene said.
Mr. Carter refused to take no for an answer.
“I only saw Mr. Carter back down one time,” Greene said, “and that was on the Kiss Cam at the Thunder game.”
Spears witnessed Mr. Carter's involvement, too. As the girls basketball coach at Millwood for more than 40 years, she saw the Carters at every game. They were supportive. They were encouraging. They were there.
“This is what we call ‘old school' today,” Spears said. “This is what we need to come back to.”
Hard to argue with the results. The Carters raised a brood of children who became successful not only in sports but also in life. They are mothers and fathers. They are hard working and church going. They are contributing members of society.
And now, the lessons that Mr. Carter taught are being passed along to his 46 grandchildren, 35 great grandchildren and 10 great great grandchildren.
His life may have ended, but his legacy will continue.
“I know that when my father got to heaven,” his son Fred said, “God said, ‘Well done, thy good and faithful servant.'”
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