She once sang “If Communism Comes Knocking at You Door, Don't Answer It” to Archie Bunker, who thought it was “a damn good song.”
The “All in the Family” audience thought it was hilarious, and former Tulsa high school cheerleader Mary Kay Place, composer of that satirical country tune, took her first step toward the role that would make her famous — as Loretta Haggers, the drawling, God-fearing, sweet-natured, empty-headed, country-singing neighbor on the '70s soap opera parody “Mary Hartman, Mary Hartman.”
Place still has a trace of Okie twang in her voice sometimes, but she's far from empty-headed, having proven her talents as an actress, screenwriter, director, singer and songwriter over and over again during her 40 years in Hollywood.
She'll be sharing memories and lessons learned from her incredible career with an audience at the Oklahoma History Center at 7 p.m. Sunday during an Oklahoma version of “Inside the Actors' Studio.”
“I'm excited to come to Oklahoma City,” the Tulsa native said in a recent phone interview. “That's going be interesting.”
It couldn't be otherwise, considering her show-biz resume, which includes becoming the first female performer ever to win a primetime Emmy as best supporting actress in a syndicated comedy series (“Mary Hartman, Mary Hartman”). She also co-wrote scripts for “The Mary Tyler Moore Show,” “M*A*S*H” and “Phyllis,” and had prominent roles in “The Big Chill,” “The Rainmaker,” “Being John Malkovich” and HBO's “The Big Love,” to name but a few.
During her Q&A at the history museum — where the “Oklahoma @ The Movies” exhibit is on display — Place will announce a donation to the Oklahoma Historical Society for eventual display in the proposed Oklahoma Museum of Popular Culture (OKPOP). The donation includes costumes and memorabilia from her work on stage, screen and in music.
Place is appearing at the Oklahoma History Center in support of the OKPOP Museum, planned for construction in the Brady Arts District in her hometown.
“They're already in the (Oklahoma History Center), the Loretta outfit and I think a hat and maybe some boots,” she said. “And maybe I might bring a costume from ‘Big Love.' I don't know if you ever saw that, but that was a really fun show to do. It was a blast because the writers were so good. ... So I'm going to bring that, and maybe there's a sweater from ‘The Big Chill' as well.”
No doubt, Place has accumulated a big closet of memories since leaving Tulsa to chase her California dreams, dreams that date to her childhood.
“My grandparents, my father's parents, loved to have me sing,” she recalled. “And they would have me sing for their friends and they were always wanting me to sing songs, and I loved to sing as a kid, as a little kid. So the (performing) bug was early. Like 3, 4, 5, 6. It started in and never stopped.”
When recalling her teen years at Nathan Hale High School, the young adult novels of S.E. Hinton came into the conversation; the way the Tulsa author described the different crowds that made up the social structure of high school in 1960s Tulsa: the “soshes,” or popular social-climbers, and the “greasers,” which was not a racial slur in this case, but a high school term for the misfits and the black leather jacket crowd. And then, of course, there were the theater geeks.
“I was not a greaser,” she said with a laugh, “but I had a lot of greaser friends. I was right in the middle because I was a cheerleader and I was in student government and I was in plays. I was in a lot of musical things. We had these big variety shows that our club put on ever year. You know, our Speakers Bureau Club. And we worked really hard on them and we wrote all these sketches.
“And I have to say they were hilarious. They were absolutely hilarious. And a lot of these kids who never went into show business — Gale Caharns is one of them — he was a brilliant writer, director, actor. He could write any music and he's head of a hospital nursing staff in Dallas, Texas, now.