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Norman parent’s questions stop author's visit to school
Norman district officials say content of book is being reviewed

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Published: September 22, 2009

NORMAN — A visit by a best-selling author to a Norman middle school was canceled after a parent questioned the content of one of the author’s books.

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Author Ellen Hopkins was scheduled to speak to eighth-graders at Whittier Middle School today about her career, writing process and books.

Hopkins is the author of several New York Times best-selling books for young adults. She was notified Thursday her visit was canceled because a parent at the school requested a review of her book "Glass.”

The free-verse novel is the second in a series about a teen dealing with drug addiction. The novel is loosely based on Hopkins’ experience with her own daughter, who was addicted to methamphetamine.

Hopkins said it’s ironic her visit was canceled this week because the American Library Association’s Banned Books Week begins Saturday.

Norman policy allows parents to exclude their children from events or request a review of curriculum, Superintendent Joe Siano said.

A parent requested an official review of "Glass” last week. Because curriculum review is a lengthy process, a decision couldn’t be made before the author’s scheduled visit, he said.

"I made a decision that while it was under review, it wasn’t appropriate for the author visit to continue,” Siano said.

An internal committee made up of administrators, teachers and librarians will review "Glass” and possibly Hopkins’ other books to see if they should be in middle school libraries, Siano said. The district’s policy is to leave the books on the shelves until a decision is made.

"This is not an issue of the author or quality of her work,” he said. "The question is about the appropriateness of the book for this age level.”

All of Hopkins’ books deal with serious issues that teens face, she said. She’s trying to show students what could happen if they make bad choices and go down those paths.

"I’ve done hundreds of school visits, and I certainly have sensitivity to those audiences,” Hopkins said. "I always focus on an anti-drug message. Instead of trying to shoot the messenger, why don’t you open the book and look at the message.”

She describes her books as raw and honest, targeted to readers age 14 and older.

"It’s a very honest look, and it needs to be an honest look to make young people think,” she said. "I want to make them look at how their choices affect them in the future and affect those who love them.”

Jamie Chosak, director of Kids Right to Read Project, said her organization plans to get involved.

The organization is a collaboration of the American Booksellers Foundation for Free Expression and the National Coalition Against Censorship. It tracks censorship issues across the nation.

Chosak said she plans to send a letter to the school district because she feels it’s both censorship and a free speech violation. One parent’s issue with a book shouldn’t keep other students from having the choice to read it, she said.

Hopkins, who lives in Nevada, decided to come to Oklahoma anyway because she had already paid for a plane ticket.

Whittier librarian Karin Perry, who won the author visit in a charity auction, has scheduled an off-campus event tonight for students and their parents who would still like to hear Hopkins speak.

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As a parent of a middle school child I am deply disappointed that my child missed the opportunity to hear this author speak. Let's get real here. Our middle school students are being exposed to drugs. If you think this talk needs to wait until high school you are mistaken. If she could have given one child information that would have kept them from experimenting with weed or meth then her visit would have been a success in my book. Ellen Hopkins offered to move her talk to one of the high schools, but her offer was declined by NPS. Shame on them.
Adrien, Moore - Sep 26, 2009 at 10:19 am
The author herself says she writes for readers who are 14 and older. Aren't middle schoolers 11-13? Even though I am a middle school teacher and a fervent free-speecher, I think it's obvious that this wasn't an appropriate choice for the students.
nadine, Brooklandville - Sep 24, 2009 at 10:25 am
"Why do people think it's ok to censor what MY child reads? "

Melani, of the people in the article, who is doing that? Even if decided that it should be age/grade restricted or even pulled from the school shelves completely, who is denying your child's right to read the book? The book is probably available at your local public library. And since you have read all of these books, do you own any of them? If so, is anyone stopping your child from reading them?

"Don't want your kid to hear from an author ... Great. Make use of the District's opt out policy"

Why is it ok for someone to "make use" of the the District's opt out policy but NOT ok for them to make use of the "request a review of curriculum" policy (both mentioned in the same sentence)?
Larry, Oklahoma City - Sep 24, 2009 at 2:44 am
Way to go. One, probably inept, parent and superintendent with an overactive knee-jerk gland goes and removes what could have been a very positive motivating experience for the kids. Way to go Joe. Now what happens when someone finds history books offensive, stop teaching?
Doug, Midwest City - Sep 23, 2009 at 7:45 pm
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Do we all remember reading S.E. Hinton? Go Ask Alice? What about Romeo and Juliet, and the drugs and suicide? How about the Diary of Anne Frank? Let's not forget the Bible and the psalms, and the incest in the old testament. Kids now are reading Elie Weisel's book Night....This is just insane, and especially in Norman, the most liberal town in the State
Sarah, Norman - Sep 23, 2009 at 7:25 pm
Why do people think it's ok to censor what MY child reads? Don't want your kid to hear from an author who write a realistic portrayal of what it's like to be addicted to meth? Great. Make use of the District's opt out policy and have your kid not go.

For the record I HAVE read all of these books. They are an excellent and accurate portrayal of what can and does happen to you when you get drawn into the hell that is drug addiction.

Oklahoma has a horrible problem with meth. Parents shouldn't be trying to shield their kids from the harsh realities of drug addiction, they need to be exposing them to it and giving them every tool possible to AVOID becoming another statisic. Just telling them NOT to do it isn't going to be enough.

I read "Go Ask Alice" while in Middle School. That was one of the most powerful books I ever read. It also had a lot to do with my avoiding even trying drugs as a teen. I did NOT want to go down that road.

The book IS indeed under review by the District to determine if it should be pulled from the library at the schools. Comparing a books about an accurate portrayal of drug addiction to providing Playboy is just, well, idiotic.
Melani, Norman - Sep 23, 2009 at 5:46 pm
Well said John! Well Said!
Eric - Sep 23, 2009 at 11:27 am
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Hopkins herself said the books were for "readers age 14 and older." It is unlikely that more than a handful of students in a middle school would be that old this time of year. Her work may be entirely appropriate for a high school audience (I have not read her books, so I do not know.), but by the author's own statement the books would not appear to be appropriate for middle school students.

As to the retraction of an invitation being censorship, the author is not being denied the right to speak, only the right to speak in a particular public school, pending a review. The term "censorship" has become so devalued as to render it meaningless. Her book has not been banned. No one has suggested that the book be banned from the school. A student would apparently still be free to bring it to school if his or her parent provided it. Even if it is removed from the middle school, no one has suggested removing it from book stores or other libraries.

Where would, Jamie Chosak, director of Kids Right to Read Project, stop? Do we need to provide Playboy and Penthouse in school libraries? What about the Kama Sutra? Jocelyn Elders stated that our children need to be taught to masturbate when they are young, so should our grade schools and middle schools should carry instruction manuals on various techniques? Denying these materials to grade school and middle school students is just as much censorship as removing Hopkins' book would be, and more so than retracting the invitation for her to speak.

The point is that at the very least, some things are not appropriate for certain ages of children. If parents want to make these materials available to their children, that is their business. But it is not the role of schools, or government in general, to introduce children to materials that their parents consider inappropriate.
John, Goddard - Sep 23, 2009 at 10:53 am
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When the kid gets old enough he is going to try weed, meth and other drugs no matter how good a parent you are or if you lock them up till they are 18. Any information about other peoples negative experiences with drugs can only help. If a peer can tell them how good the crank is just so your kid can try it, chances are he/she will snort a line or smoke it to try it out.
steve, ada - Sep 23, 2009 at 10:53 am
It seems that the book is very powerful, creative, and honest. However, it doesn't seem appropriate for a middle school audience. The librarian won the visit through a "raffle" - it wasn't chosen by the district/building to address a "drug-problem" of even a "literacy-problem." Perhaps the high-school should invite the author back for those duel roles, but I think that the parent was right to question this specific event.
Michael, Elyria - Sep 23, 2009 at 9:51 am
Amen Doug!!! It's the parent factor in the whole drug issue/education issue. Most of the parents can't be "bothered" with their children, they have to many things going on to take the time out to see what is going on in their children's lives. I'm amazed at how many kids are just left to their own raising, cause Mom and Dad have so many extra-curricular activities, and just throw money and cars and cell phones to the kids and expect them to "get it"....
A, Norman - Sep 23, 2009 at 9:19 am
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Good Morning Bob- not sure what trap I fell into other than suggesting extreme language and judgementalness regarding others while pajoritively suggesting the sole correctness of ones own values and path is not a very "pretty" or actually effective way of interacting with others and attempting two way meaningful communications with them.
You were right by the way- the lecture was clearly about the drug experence, not creative writing.
I hope you have a good day, and enjoy the sunshine out there, it is a nice change!
David, Oklahoma City - Sep 23, 2009 at 8:41 am
No, wonder drugs are out of control.
wayne, blanchard - Sep 23, 2009 at 6:30 am
Correction to my post below: ...the Superintendent made a decision...
Larry, Oklahoma City - Sep 23, 2009 at 2:02 am
The same people who banned this woman’s book also want the kids beaten in school.
stinkerpants, Oklahoma City - Sep 22, 2009 at 9:38 am

[No one has banned the book (it is simply under review)]


I still don’t understand how one parent could cause this event to be cancelled?
Brent, Tulsa - Sep 22, 2009 at 3:28 pm

[One parent didn’t cause the event to get cancelled (the principal made a decision that since the author’s book was under review, it wouldn’t be appropriate for the school to have her speak)]


Only in this backwards state would an author be banned from being able to speak to middle school children.
Jeff, Oklahoma City - Sep 22, 2009 at 3:45 pm

[The suthor was not banned from speaking at the school.]


To those of you who are outraged by the graphic scenes in this book, and have successfully created enough fear for administration to ban the book...
cheryl, Norman - Sep 22, 2009 at 9:28 pm

[The administration hasn’t banned the book or even restricted access (it is simply under review)]


I find it ridiculous that ONE parent gets to decide what the children of hundreds of other parents read.
Whitney, Oklahoma City - Sep 22, 2009 at 9:49 pm

[One parent didn’t decide anything (while the book is under review, it is still on the schools shelves) and it is being reviewed by an “internal committee made up of administrators, teachers and librarians”]
Larry, Oklahoma City - Sep 23, 2009 at 1:59 am
"how's that Anti-Drug education sponsored by the Norman Public Schools working for you?"

Works for me, but I don't let my kids run wild, which is probably more of a factor to our success.




doug, norman - Sep 23, 2009 at 12:20 am
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Anita, how's that Anti-Drug education sponsored by the Norman Public Schools working for you? Really, there is so much drug use by teens in Norman, and even 10, 11 and 12 year olds... Not just illegal drugs, but mom, dad and grandparent's prescription medication.. like xanex, valium, oxycotin you name it.... kids bring it to the schools and sell it and give it to their friends.. But the administrators keep them out of the "court" system, because of who their parent is... I agree with Cheryl, knowledge is the most important thing these kids can get. Unfortunately, most parents do not want their children to have knowledge and know more than they do. If the kids knew the truth then we might not have so many pregnant, overdosing, and suffering from alcohol poisoning. And besides, if the kids learn the truth, then they might realize that their own parent's are addicts/alcoholics.
Sarah, Norman - Sep 22, 2009 at 11:14 pm
Cheryl, this is a public forum and while I understand your trying to elevate its standards, we have readers from all walks of life. Telling readers to get a dictionary to avoid ruining their credibility, in my opinion, fosters resentment and will not nurture good forum habits.

I, too, am a school teacher and you are correct, we deal with a lot of things that parents might not realize but that does not mean they need to get a mirror. Parents and teachers have to work together for the children whom we care about. Education is not only about teaching children the content anymore. It has become a collaborative effort from everyone who affects the nurturing of the child, that includes parents, teachers, and the community.

Thanks Anita for clearing up the matter.
Ahmad, Tulsa - Sep 22, 2009 at 11:01 pm
It is accurate that only one parent filled out the form to have the book "under review" - however that does not indicate that only one parent was unhappy. The form simply didn't need to be filled out numerous times. Many parents contacted the administration with their concerns about the author visit. The biggest concern was the age appropriateness of the books (the publisher simonandschuster.com, lists the books as for grades 9-12, and above age 14)- which is not a 6th, 7th and 8th grade population. Secondly, the strongest objection wasn't to having the books in the library, but in PROMOTING the books by having an author visit and by SENDING HOME ORDER FORMS WITH THE STUDENTS SO THEY COULD PURCHASE THE BOOKS. The book order forms were sent home with students last week, and were what began the parent investigations into what type of books the author would be visiting about. The students were to listen to the author during their Language Arts class, although by the author's own admission she was coming with an anti-drug message. I think an anti-drug message is great, but Norman Public School already has a district approved age appropriate Drug Awareness program, that the students will be taking part in later in the semester.
Anita - Sep 22, 2009 at 9:50 pm
I actually went to hear the author speak, and until you have all heard her do so, I don't think anyone can pass judgement on her or on the people who read her books. I'm a high school English teacher, and while I don't think her books are for everybody, they go deep into the minds and motives of a character. She makes you feel emotionally connected to the character, causing the reader to have empthy for the character...also causing the reader to never want to be like that character. She, in no way, encourages drug abuse (or bad parenting, for that matter), instead she does quite the opposite. Rather than sit down to read a book that has an obvious, cheesy, anti-drug message, students pick up her books and read what it's really like for people to go through these situations. And when they are done with the book, the reader thanks God that they don't have a problem like that, and it's a more effective anti-drug message.

As far as the author being a terrible parent, she never pretends to be a perfect parent. And until all of you self-proclaimed perfect parents out there realize that nobody is perfect, you will never get her message.

I agree with the fact that her books are for 14 year olds and up...so why have her speak at a middle school? Well, she tried to move the venue to one of the Norman high schools, but was told that she couldn't even do that. I find it ridiculous that ONE parent gets to decide what the children of hundreds of other parents read.
Whitney, Oklahoma City - Sep 22, 2009 at 9:49 pm
About the ALA--it's essentially a "progressive" interest group, just like AARP, the American Trial Lawyers' Association, and ACORN. For example, it opposes putting any types of filters on school computers hooked up to the internet. The supposed rationale is that since no filter can block all the violent and pornographic websites, there should not be any filters at all, and all websites should be available for the students' viewing.
Randall, Tulsa - Sep 22, 2009 at 9:31 pm
To those of you who are outraged by the graphic scenes in this book, and have successfully created enough fear for administration to ban the book and cancel the author's talk: First, really, get a dictionary. The number of misspelled words ruins your credibility. Next, get a mirror. That face full of judgement and disgust? That is the exact face your kids see when they try to talk to you. I've been an educator for 17 years and would be a very rich woman if I had a nickel for every time a student came to me in crisis as a result of drugs, or sex, or alcohol, or friendship drama or sexual orientation, etc. I listen (as do most all of our teachers); I try to provide a safe space in which they can verbally explore their views; I let them know they have value. What I want to do is let them crawl into my skin, look at the situation from a different perspective, but since I can't do that, I do the next best thing: I hand them a book, or more often, a list of books that I think might be helpful to them on their journey. Because literature offers that incredible gift, "A book is the only place in which you can examine a fragile thought without breaking it, or explore an explosive idea without fear it will go off in your face. It is one of the few havens remaining where a man's mind can get both provocation and privacy. ~Edward P. Morgan

Each time you fight to remove a book, you are removing a resource that could have helped a child. Or a parent.

cheryl, Norman - Sep 22, 2009 at 9:28 pm
Ms. Hopkins describes her books as being targeted at young people 14 years and older. Most 14-year-olds are H.S. freshmen. She was scheduled to speak at a middle school. Seems to me that, by her own description, the books may not be appropriate for middle schoolers. If her books aren't appropriate for middle schoolers, why would a middle school have her scheduled to speak there?
Randall, Tulsa - Sep 22, 2009 at 9:26 pm
'Hopkins said it’s ironic her visit was canceled this week because the American Library Association’s Banned Books Week begins Saturday."

I think it's ironic that there's a "Report as inappropriate" link below every comment. I think ALA needs to investigate that as well. We should ban push-button censorship, for the good of the children!

I've read the book, I've commented on it here, but apparently my informed opinion isn't good enough to be published on this fine, upstanding website.
doug, norman - Sep 22, 2009 at 8:02 pm
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David,

You sure are defensive for not having been mentioned specifically. I guess we know the truth about you without having to meet/see you. Thanks for falling into the trap dumbass.
Bob, OKC - Sep 22, 2009 at 8:01 pm
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The hypocricy of the majority posting here amuses me. They say how can one person change an event like this, but fall all over themselves to defend one person objecting to the Pledge of Allegiance. Perhaps the schools should worry about teaching students the basics in light of the recent study showing dissapointing results of student knowledge.
M, oklahoma city - Sep 22, 2009 at 7:12 pm
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As so- shift change, the Loyal members of the John Birch Society and the American Independent Party have arrived!
It is always easy to spot when they show their respect for others or opinions different from their own with such steady respectful civil phrases like "ignorant parents" or the ever popular "a few morons who have failed as parents" or the crowd pleasing favorite "self-righteous pompous asses".
Simply amazing they will never see in a mirror what their words tell the rest of us without ever seeing them at all.
David, Oklahoma City - Sep 22, 2009 at 6:45 pm
Some kids learn better from other peoples' experiences and not just what their parents tell them. Most kids think that their parents tell them things "because they have to" but when they hear another point of view and see the consequences it clicks in their heads. I would love to see her books stay on the shelves in the school. It could get the message across to kids in a different way.
Sara, Oklahoma City - Sep 22, 2009 at 6:28 pm
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I think having the author to come and speak was a great idea
Sara, Oklahoma City - Sep 22, 2009 at 6:26 pm
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Jennifer, You hit the nail on the head. Parents should be taking responsibility for educating their children on the dangers of drugs and the dangers of associating with idiots that have parents like some of the posters here. A talk by a woman that has made her fortune off of her poor parenting is not a good way to educate a 13-year old. It appears to me that some parenting classes are in order for quite a few ignorant adults. A child's drug use becomes an addiction when they don't have a parent smart enough to notice the signs and intervene. Your child has NO RIGHTS until they are 18. Lock them in the house and teach them right from wrong before unleashing them upon society. Be a parent. It takes more than than the 15-min a day that some seem to be giving here.
Bob, OKC - Sep 22, 2009 at 5:51 pm
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Maybe NPS should require the parents to attend with their kids. It doesn't do any good to hide from the subject matter, because it will still be there. The few parents who are hiding from the subject matter may have a very rude awakening one day. Another solution is to have written permission from the parents for their children to hear what the author has to say. I completely agree that children that young shouldn't have drug problems, but let's get real, there are a few. Why not work to prevent.
Jennifer, Edmond - Sep 22, 2009 at 5:44 pm
Although I live in AR, I grew up in OK, was born and raised there, have read the Grapes of Wrath and listened to some of your natives trash OK......Oklahoma has much to be proud of and it's just not because of the sooners & their athletic fame..My father was a Methodist minister so I had the privilege of living in the north, south, east, west & middle of the state. The congregation would get sick of us every two or three years and we would have to move on...that's not to say that we pks, preacher's kids, didn't get just as sick of the congregation. I'm a sooner born, a sooner bred and when I die, I'll be a sooner dead. Stay proud Oklahomans....
Don, Calion - Sep 22, 2009 at 5:40 pm
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Deb, you are 100% right on! Any of the dipsh!t morons that say otherwise will have a pregnant teenage daughter and a child in prison before they are finished being lazy and incompetent parents.
Bob, OKC - Sep 22, 2009 at 5:39 pm
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If your 13-14 year old eight grader has a meth problem you suck as a parent. Yes, you CAN prevent your kids from being idiots at 13-14. A good all around anti-drug message is good in school. Exposing kids to the fact that a few morons have failed as parents and let their 13-14 year old run free and get involved with drugs is not.
Bob, OKC - Sep 22, 2009 at 5:36 pm
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Kids don't need to read about a PARENT'S struggle/perspective on drug abuse. The author should visit Barnes and Noble. If a parent wants to expose their middle-schooler to crack-heads and meth-heads, they can take them down for a visit.
Bob, OKC - Sep 22, 2009 at 5:31 pm
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Kenneth, having lived here all my life in Norman, I can say that I love Norman and I believe in our community. I have problems witht the cover up and/or glossing over. This story wasn't ran in the Transcript to my knowledge.
Tammy, Norman - Sep 22, 2009 at 5:26 pm
Gary, don't send em to AR....we have enough proplems of our own.
Don, Calion - Sep 22, 2009 at 5:22 pm
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The people commenting trash talk on Norman and Oklahoma in general really need to get out more and open their eyes -
http://www.motherearthnews.com/Nature-Community/Great-Places-Norman-Oklahoma.aspx?page=2
Things are changing no thanks to the people who leave our great state. Ignorant naysayers are the ones who continue the negative myth about Oklahoma.
Kenneth, Maysville - Sep 22, 2009 at 5:20 pm
WOW!!!!!!! what man would want to come home to Deb unless he's wearing a suit of armor???? All I know about the book is that it has a 5 star rating by educators for kids 15 and above. At what age are the schools handing out condoms...not sure....
Don, Calion - Sep 22, 2009 at 5:08 pm
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why dont they tell us who this parent is and then we can pay for them a bus ticket to ark, they would fit right in over there. what stupid people and the school is just as bad.
Gary, Oklahoma City - Sep 22, 2009 at 5:06 pm
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only one parent killed this talk. that is real demoracy in this school system. wonder if they teach any thing in this school that has anything to do with the way gov is run? must not.
Gary, Oklahoma City - Sep 22, 2009 at 5:00 pm
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Randy is displaying ignorance. The book contains graphic sexual scenes. Why did the author choose to include this? Isn't it enough to simply include a statement that the main character engaged in destructive behavior? But Brent takes the grand prize for being outright stupid and dangerous. Parents have NO RIGHT to be involved in this matter? What is wrong with you?!?!?! Why are you so willing to let ANY authority figure outside yourself have this type of control over your child? You had better wise-up and realize that since Thomas Dewey wrote his seminal book telling schools to be the agents of societal change that many "educators" and school administrators have taken that to mean that it is THEIR job to re-engineer society the way they believe it should be. Parents have no rights? This isn't Sparta or Nazi Germany or the U.S.S.R. God I hope you don't produce offspring. Parents - be vigilent and get ready to do the hard work. I found Seventeen Magazine in our daughter's middle school library. Gee. Fashion tips, new hairstyles, a quiz on sexual likes and dislikes, an interview with Mandy Moore laced with profanities and how much she hated school...oh, did I mention this was in a Middle School? And what did the media center librarian argue when the principal agreed with me that the magazine had no place in her school. FIRST AMENDMENT RIGHTS!!! NO CENSORSHIP!!! What a bunch of self-righteous pompous asses.
Deb, Edmond - Sep 22, 2009 at 4:53 pm
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While I oppose censorship, it is proper for a school district to use a process to review curriculum (and a library book is just as much curriculum as a textbook) to insure that all points are considered. In the meantime I applaud the school librarian for hosting an off-campus event with the author.
Joe, Overland Park - Sep 22, 2009 at 4:31 pm
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In the event you might be thinking that it isn't possible to abuse kids in schools,that it doesn't occur, or that these are just unruly kids; Please read the report submitted to Congress this past Spring at http://www.copaa.org/pdf/UnsafeCOPAAMay_27_2009.pdf
Tammy, Norman - Sep 22, 2009 at 4:14 pm
My point in my prior post is that the District can ban the Author, yet will defend with taxpayer funds, a teacher who has had an obvious drug problem. That just doesn't make sense to me.
Tammy, Norman - Sep 22, 2009 at 4:09 pm
I am embarrassed for Norman. The lady writes book for ages 14 and up, your average 8th grader is 14 to 15, about a personal subject such as meth addiction (I know we don't have any kind of problem with that in OK). C'mon Norman why are you letting one dissident parent ruin a valuable experience for all your kids? Don't 8th graders need to know about the writing process since they take the 8th GRADE WRITING TEST?
berry, arapaho - Sep 22, 2009 at 3:56 pm
If you think the district is bad over this book and and author, perhaps you should ask Superintendent Siano why he feels he should defend abuse claims by several parents who claim their special needs children suffered physical abuse while students in the Norman school system over a lengthy period of time. US Western District Case 5:2007cv01323. Attorney for the district has publicly stated that "we believe the school district and its employees
have at all times acted properly and within the bounds of the law,"
Pendarvis said in a statement. "We intend to defend this lawsuit vigorously" Yet, you can read the arrest record of the main employee charged with abuse of these students at http://tinyurl.com/mt7h2z. Before her arrest, this teacher was moved from her position at an elementary school in Norman to the Alternative School. One child in this case has Dyslexia and and Dysgraphia, was improperly placed in the class, and has never had to be "restrained" since leaving the teachers class. Perhaps the public should request from the district through FOI how much money in taxpayer funds are used to pay attorney's to the Tulsa law firm. Yes, I agree, Norman lost and Putnam City gained.
Tammy, Norman - Sep 22, 2009 at 3:50 pm
I think it was the right thing to do. The author said " I target readers 14 and older" That is HIGH SCHOOL not middle school. It makes no sence to have her come and speake to middle school students who even she feels are too young for her subject matter. The average age students start middle school is 11.
randy, piedmont - Sep 22, 2009 at 3:49 pm
Oklahoma, thy name is paranoia.
Only in this backwards state would an author be banned from being able to speak to middle school children.
And why not?
This is the same state the regularly sees books banned from schools that are taught in other states (e.g. "Catcher in The Rye") and this is the same state and city where an Oscar winning movie ("The Tin Drum") was deemed child pornography by a senile old judge and agents of the Gestapo - oops- I meant the OKC police department - illegally got the names of people who were rented said movie and went to their homes to get the tape!
I am so sick and tired of the religious right dictating anything and everything here.
This state is a national laughingstock-every time you turn around school officials or elected officials are doing something idiotic.
From Sally Kern to Jim Inhofe to Tom Coburn-all a disgrace.
Until the people of Oklahoma wake up and stop this insanity your state will remain the butt of jokes.
Jeff, Oklahoma City - Sep 22, 2009 at 3:45 pm
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I still don't understand how one parent could cause this event to be cancelled? The school should be able to invite whoever they want and the parents should have absolutely no say in what goes on there. This is a PUBLIC school. If it was a private school it would be a different story as parents pay for that right...
Brent, Tulsa - Sep 22, 2009 at 3:28 pm
I think the lady should speak and she would probably pass along a good message. Can someone answer this? Why would people have a problem with "thou shall not kill" but not a problem with "don't do drugs"? And vise versa!
Russell, Midwest City - Sep 22, 2009 at 3:24 pm
David, I have not read the book which is why I offered no comment on it. The only opinions in which I'm interested are from people such as yourself who have read it. Of course that is tempered somewhat by the responders record of bias as exhibited in other threads, but it's still an opinion worth more than from someone who has no more knowledge of the book than what is written in an article or two.
Earl, Oklahoma City - Sep 22, 2009 at 3:21 pm
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David, who are you? From whence does does your wisdom come? 'til next time. C
chris, weatherford - Sep 22, 2009 at 3:19 pm
Chris, Weatherford- keep your chin up friend and don't sweat the small stuff- reboot and move foward. I don't see agreement on the subject in the cards- there are times,places and folks to whom the position may be more important that the content.
There is a aspects to calling something or someone facist any way Chris- There is a "name" to describe the idealogy, and then there are the actions, or behaviors, or the symptoms of facist.
I would agree with you that the pre ordination view is very whack and devoid of ethics. I have read before what you posted early as a recount of a conversation, and it is very similar to logic one would expect a facist to use.
The term might be correct for them but sect, or cult, authortarism or maybe even calvinist might fit as well.
Again, the actions are like symptoms- many illnesses have the same symptoms, say a fever, but the actual illness is specific and may not be say, swine flu. Which is what the folks at c house would have if they caught the flu, even if it not H1N1 (weak attempt at humor).
Your were exhuberant perhaps, but it is not a make or break it action.
It is tough when there a some engaged in civil discourse while at the same time they are some engaged in character assassination, all in the same thread.
Keep posting up your thoughts please!
David, Oklahoma City - Sep 22, 2009 at 3:09 pm
It goes against my grain, but the audience was going to be middle school students and the author describer her books as raw and honest, targeted to readers age 14 and older." I believe most middle school kids are between the ages of 11 and 14. So her target age group was a very small percentage of this school. I am a librarian myself and while I think this author would have been appropriate for high school, I probably would have chosen a different author for middle school students who deals with the same subject but for a younger crowd.
LA - Sep 22, 2009 at 2:47 pm
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After spending my first 22 years in Oklahoma, my decision to move out of the state 10 years ago is once again validated.
J, Gilbert - Sep 22, 2009 at 2:37 pm
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Bob, I know you don't know me, but I am not a conspiracy theorist or a kook of any kind. This is a worrisome group.
chris, weatherford - Sep 22, 2009 at 2:28 pm
Bob, have you even looked into the family?
chris, weatherford - Sep 22, 2009 at 2:26 pm
Mark, I thought the very same thing when I read the article..."a parent" implying "one"!
Matt1, OKC - Sep 22, 2009 at 2:20 pm
Since when does one parent have this much power? I agree with those that think the school district was "spineless" in keeping the author from speaking. It seemed like a dual opportunity was lost - the chance for students to meet and ask questions of a successful writer of literature for them, and the chance to hear an anti-drug message from a mother whose own daughter was an addict. If her fictional stories are "raw", it's because the consequences of drug abuse and addiction are raw. Fourteen year olds can handle this. What a missed opportunity. Once again Oklahoma comes across as silly and backwards. Hey "concerned" parents: your daughters are probably tearing through the "Twilight" books, about a morally unsound 17 year old girl torn between the love of a blood sucking vampire and a flesh ripping werewolf. Any problems with that?
Mark, Edmond - Sep 22, 2009 at 2:15 pm
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omg. Another classic Okie move, God forbid we educate these kids! Go ahead, bury your head in the sand, hide and pretend teens don't do drugs or get pregnant and hope & pray you won't end up with a drug addicted grandchild at age 35! Each ahd every day I think some Oklahomans can't be any more backwards and ignorant than they already are, and every day I'm proven wrong. Wake UP!!! COMMUNICATE with YOUR CHILDREN PLEASE!
K, Edmond - Sep 22, 2009 at 2:11 pm
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Chris, grow up a little and take off the tin-foil hat.
Bob, Bugtussle - Sep 22, 2009 at 2:04 pm
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Oh...I get it.
Raven, Edmond's Ghetto (Guthrie) - Sep 22, 2009 at 1:53 pm
opposing
chris, weatherford - Sep 22, 2009 at 1:36 pm
Sorry for the confusion Raven, I misspelled mobile home. I was implying that mobile homes are popular in Oklahoma.
Jason, Seattle - Sep 22, 2009 at 1:36 pm
Hey Jason,
It is amazing how much time soemone from Seattle spends reading an Oklahoma newspaper. Do they not know how to write up there in Seattle? Perhaps they are about as adept at writing as they are at supporting a pro baskeetball team. Get over it dude, we have the Thunder! Maybe you can go support your Seahawks..oh yeah..they suck too. Maybe they should move here also so they can have some support.
Brad, Oklahoma City - Sep 22, 2009 at 1:35 pm
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Bob, I am having trouble understanding how I was unclear or incorrect in saying that "the family" are not fascists. They want to limit and oppress opssing viewpoints, they want to control the government through which they aim to control the sentiment of the country,they want to control the economy, etc.
chris, weatherford - Sep 22, 2009 at 1:35 pm
NO Raven- you have it right, the talk with students was to be about creative writing, and publishing- not the book. I don't doubt she has done lectures on the subject, given her own daughter having gone the road-
But this was to be about creative writing for young people.
The topic does morph a bit in the rendition.
David, Oklahoma City - Sep 22, 2009 at 1:34 pm
Okla-moble-homa? I don't get it.
Raven, Edmond's Ghetto (Guthrie) - Sep 22, 2009 at 1:26 pm
This book is about the perils of drug use. It is not a users guide...
willis, oklahoma city - Sep 22, 2009 at 1:25 pm
With all the problems that Okla-moble-homa has, I can't see what she could write that's so threatening.
Jason, Seattle - Sep 22, 2009 at 1:23 pm
Is she going to talk aboutthe evils of drugs, or writing & publishing books?
Raven, Edmond's Ghetto (Guthrie) - Sep 22, 2009 at 1:21 pm
Yes, it's too edgy for Norman Schools, but fine for a Baptist College. Seems askew, doesn't it?
Gary, England - Sep 22, 2009 at 1:20 pm
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This could have been a good opportunity to connect with some of those students that are riding the fence about drug use. This author could shine a new light on a tragic problem. Shame on the administration for condeming this visit. The purpose of her visit was to educate by sharing her story. That she is willing to come to Oklahoma to share her story with these kids, means she has something good to teach them. I for one am a little puzzled at the decision not to allow her to speak to these kids. The fact that she lived through this nightmare and is willing to share this story, might have a greater impact on some of the kids.
willis, oklahoma city - Sep 22, 2009 at 1:19 pm
By the way, the off-campus visit will be held tonight at Hillsdale Baptist College in Moore at 7:30pm. Apparently churches are willing to discuss the repercussions of drug use, while public schools want to act like drug use doesn't exist.

Methamphetamine use in Oklahoma is about 42% higher than the national average. Wes Lane and Kim Henry put together the "Crystal Darkness Oklahoma" campaign earlier this year. But Norman Public Schools ban an author that has seen what meth can do to a child and could, potentially, save lives.

Pathetic NPS.
Ryan, OKC - Sep 22, 2009 at 1:16 pm
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Wuuufff, Norman- An interesting corallary to that saying might be "And I never met a person who was finished with their education as long as they got a pulse!"
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David, Oklahoma City - Sep 22, 2009 at 1:10 pm
Dave, Oklahoma City. I hope it is not that bad, but who knows for sure? the old addage "squeaky wheel gets the attention" is in effect- those who squeal the loudest often carry the day.
In the military it was part of the concept of force multiplication- if you are a small force then make the noise of a large unit to impact the minds of both your opponent and those civilian base you want to be on your side.
Much of the "chatter" one is often getting now is from a smaller but more organized and vocal constituancy who understands they can make up for numbers with volume.
The far left, and the far right, are very energized to influence the moderates in the middle as much as they can, in a disproportionate level to their actual ranks.
The "middle ground" is too worried about just hanging on to what they have right now, and issues such as this just slip past them I am afraid.
David, Oklahoma City - Sep 22, 2009 at 1:08 pm
Quoting a sage Oklahoma legislator:
"Education is a fine thing for people that need it."
Wuuuufff, Norman - Sep 22, 2009 at 1:06 pm
J, OKC- Plus One! You got it on the nose!! It ain't the book, it was a guest lecture on how to write...
David, Oklahoma City - Sep 22, 2009 at 12:59 pm
Say Bob, Welston- I miss pioneer barbeque still! I trust you know that you and I are on the same page about this at heart- As much as the correct understanding and usage of abstract terms and concepts is important, I personally feel that respect and civility are every bit as important to the whole path of intelligent discourse on any subject.
A corallary to that concept is a strong personal belief two wrongs never make a right- if one's tenor is extreme and not modulated the correct response is NOT to equal the tone.
IF I personally get to the tone or demenor of the person I personally feel is "out there" and/or acting in a inapropriate fashion than I am losing too. Part of my assuredness in my conviction is the security to not sink to a lesser place least I be no better than that I revile.
Perhaps it is silly, but there ya go- I try to practice it regularly in my life.
I also believe the opprotunity to actually sway others with logic and reasoning only comes by not taking too emphatic a route in response. Again, the two wrongs would not make a right.
To re-enforce you statement- there is way too much slinging of what is conceived of as the worst possible term in ones mind onto the thoughts and ideas of overs if one disagrees-
Fascist, Socialist, Communist, traitor, racist are all slung way too often like they are explictives.
Folks could all stand from doing what Rachel is doing- look it up before you use it- if it does not actually "fit" as a description, then don't use it!
And Rachel, you make me blush- thank you for the kind words, I am no perfect parent, but when my wife died I really felt the need to "step up" the level and quality of my time with my daughter- I have no illusions, she will go down some wrong paths and have values different than mine (I full well expect her to register as a democrat when her time comes) but we both work at respect and communication. Between all the teen drama! She wears all the time a small sterling compass I gave her for Christmas a couple of years back- to remind her always to use her own internal sense of right and correct and good.
In my life I have seen way too many valuable human being squandered- and my daughter is the most important thing in my world...
And you know Rachel, give yourself a break there kiddo- from what I read that you posted in many strings, you turned out pretty good! Your parents might not have totally ever understood but I would like to think they are proud enough of your sense of conviction and smarts.... I would be proud for you know or talk with my daughter...
David, Oklahoma City - Sep 22, 2009 at 12:57 pm
RACHEL- I think you and I are in the same boat. How old are you now?
Raven, Edmond's Ghetto (Guthrie) - Sep 22, 2009 at 12:50 pm
Why are Oklahoma schools near the bottom? Joe Siano and hundreds like him in charge of schools in our state. Schools don't need more money,schools need educators that do their job and not bow to the the likes of a single parent that doesn't like a book.
Dave, Oklahoma City - Sep 22, 2009 at 12:50 pm
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If it don't deal with Sooner football then it don't need to be in the Norman schools. Boomer!
Louis Friend, Norman - Sep 22, 2009 at 12:47 pm
Every teacher, every parent should be outraged by the Siano decision. Teachers be careful, very, very careful what you say in class because the Super has no courage. Parents be cautious what your kids are taught because a single parent can keep your kids from learning what they need to know. Putnam City gained when Siano left, Norman is the obvious loser. This guy shouldn't be allowed to teach, much less be in charge of teachers.
Dave, Oklahoma City - Sep 22, 2009 at 12:46 pm
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Another example of "gutless" administration of Norman Schools.
How does one person have the right to cancel a subject that the majority of students want and need to hear.Just use "common sense" is all administration has to do and in this case they did not.Sad to hear.
This kind of stuff is what is driving our god educators from the profession.
Don, Garland - Sep 22, 2009 at 12:41 pm
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If the author was only speaking on the writing process...then why was the school selling the book to students?
J, OKC - Sep 22, 2009 at 12:35 pm
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I did Earl- what did you think of it?
David, Oklahoma City - Sep 22, 2009 at 12:34 pm
I've seen Socialist and Nazi used before as well, Bob. It's all the same.
So let's break it down --

Socialism: advocate the creation of a society that allows for the widespread application of modern technology to rationalise economic activity by eliminating the anarchy in production of capitalism, allowing for wealth and power to be distributed based on the amount of work expended in production

Fascism: a political philosophy, movement, or regime (as that of the Fascisti) that exalts nation and often race above the individual and that stands for a centralized autocratic government headed by a dictatorial leader, severe economic and social regimentation, and forcible suppression of opposition

Nazi: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nazism

You can do the Nazi research yourself.
Rachel, Midwest City - Sep 22, 2009 at 12:31 pm
How many of the people commenting have read the book?
Earl, Oklahoma City - Sep 22, 2009 at 12:30 pm
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No David. People throw the word "Fascist" around willy-nilly. They should make a concerted effort to be accurate and direct. They should not expect their audience to infer what they're saying.

In other words, be clear with your message and do not pepper it with generalizations lest you not be taken seriously.
Bob, Bugtussle - Sep 22, 2009 at 12:22 pm
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David - thank you for giving a parent's (especially a parent of a teenager) perspective.

When I was 14 - all was not well with the world. I was an emotional wrecking ball. I did a lot of things that while they were not good or healthy for me to do - I do not regret. I went to the school of hardknocks. I was never given the talk about drugs, sex or alcohol. I was binge drinking at 15 and pill-popping by 18. I was promiscuous from an early age. I don't think a book could've saved me from my self-created demise but an understanding adult could have made a difference.

The issue (again) is not a book. The issue is the lack of (good) parenting in our state. David is a fine example of a good parent.
Rachel, Midwest City - Sep 22, 2009 at 12:18 pm
Sherry,Edmond- still raining there? The part that is glossed over as Gary so very well pointed out-
She was not there to read from this book, or any of her books. She was there to talk with the students about how to effectively do creative writing...
I would wager she would have been willing to "self censor" if she had been asked to make sure the book was not the subject of the discussion.
More likely would have been the book being brought up in Q&A by a concerned parent.
IF the stink had not been raised, the kids would have not known of any controversial issues at all, it would have just been a interesting guest lecture that got them out of "regular" stuff for a while... that's all.
What is also sad it that the medium is what these folks are focused on instead of the message- I have read this book, and I you might have too- the message is cearly not pro sex, or pro drugs- it is a painfully graphic tale of the consquences of the choices and actions for main character-
David, Oklahoma City - Sep 22, 2009 at 12:15 pm
Outburst of others does not justify my acting with any less civility- or something like that....
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David, Oklahoma City - Sep 22, 2009 at 12:08 pm
And I would give our friend and mutual poster Chris from weatherford some slack- I have "chatted" with him in the past, and he seems like a smart enough person- his use of facist is not strictly in the definition of the concept, I do get as I am sure most of you do the gist, the concept of what he is trying to convey.
And it is similar in some regards in how this is a indeed a issue of ideaology as much as anything- the intollerance of any ideas divergent from ones own is what one might call a "symptom" of a facist movement.
If one is on the side of acceptance of right of others to opinions other than their own, the divergence in complex issues into differences of opinion and tollerance and respect of others and their views, then civility in interactions with them even if their opinions vary should also be part of the ethos- or they are themselves exhibiting the behavor they don't like...
give em a break-
David, Oklahoma City - Sep 22, 2009 at 12:06 pm
I am all for her message, although I have not read her books, but I believe this was the correct decision in light of the fact the author targets an audience of 14 and older. This is middle school, ages 11 through 14. Wrong audience. Someone didn't do their homework.
Sherry, Edmond - Sep 22, 2009 at 11:53 am
This state has never been burdened by intelligence.
Antonio, Miami - Sep 22, 2009 at 11:50 am
I did the nasty at 14, and probably worse stuff before that. I haven't read this book, as most of you haven't, but I can say that from what I have seen here, if I had read it at 12-14, I probably would have kept on doing the nasty. Most kids who do that are going to do it anyway. I guess if it saves one though...
Raven, Edmond's Ghetto (Guthrie) - Sep 22, 2009 at 11:50 am
Chris,
John posted up what Fascism is, and it's nothing like you're claiming. So, you're way off base and are ignorant.
Bob, Bugtussle - Sep 22, 2009 at 11:45 am
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The truth be told, I am very, very tired of the religious demagoguery here (Sally Kern, et al) cramming their religion down everyone else's throats. They tried to pass a *law* against a Darwin presentation at OU, for God's sake. Now this. It is perfectly fine to believe whatever crazy religion one wants to believe, another all together to declare that everyone else has to follow that religion.
stinkerpants, Oklahoma City - Sep 22, 2009 at 11:45 am
Chris,weatherford- how you doing in the home of SWSU today? I too find the whole c street and faimly group very distressing. They are very much into the ends justifying the means carried way to far. While a trait that jibes with the actions of many facist not sure the trait equates to the ideaology. Maybe 8/
Friend Gary- While we do have a touch of check and balance right now in Oklahoma, I doubt it will stay that way in the next round of elections- we will have a republician super majority soon enough- but conservative fundamentalist republicans I am afraid.
Oklahoma has polled to the right of center for the fourty years I have been aware of such data being collected with progressive movement more to the right, not the center.
The last legislative session had some rather brazen politics in my mind, legislation was passed and the gov vetoed it, then the legislature turned around restructed the bill and sent it to a vote of the people in the fall. Popular referindums have been the undoing of politics and government in California- present a simple statement with a catch phrase to the voters but leave the complex nuance of figuring out how to pay for it off or enforce it or if it is even constitutional out of the measure- jeez.
David, Oklahoma City - Sep 22, 2009 at 11:41 am
this is the kind of people that need to move to outer mongolia. they give the rest of us here in okla a bad name.
Gary, Oklahoma City - Sep 22, 2009 at 11:39 am
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The lady or man mama in drag, who’s raising the most stink about the whole thing…no doubt has kids on drugs and is too stupid to know it. Sweep it under the rug like everything else in Oklahoma and stick your head in the sand hoping it will go away. If we can ban it, hush it or outlaw it then it will cease to be is their thinking...sadly it only flourishes with greater appeal in those dark places that the preacher's kids are the first to stray off too!
Oklahoma, okc - Sep 22, 2009 at 11:39 am
Ditto the need for a edit button and a nice spell check!
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David, Oklahoma City - Sep 22, 2009 at 11:29 am
Gary, England - Sep 22, 2009 at 9:53 am Plus One friend! Very well versed and logical.
The visit and lecture were to be on effective creative writing, not the content of this book. I would imagine the author would have even cooperated in making sure to not broach the subject if she had been asked.
The comment "How can we tell them that is okay to read things, but not okay to act that way?" is interesting and tells a lot-
Part the power of good writing is exactly what you seem to fear- the ability to describe and then convey their impacts- This fear would suggest if your child was to read "The Jungle" by Upton Sinclar they will go become meetpackers and drop in stuff you don't want in a sausage?
Again- I read this book after my duaghter read it and wanted me to read it. And then we talked about it. I can assure you that my daughter drew all of the lessons from it the author intended very clearly without any interdiction on my part. She did have a few questions and I answered them- I am not afraid of knowledge or ideas.
I have always seen room for both viens- the active exposure to as many divergent ideas and points of view as possible make you stronger, not weaker. In turn I have my own time with my daughter that I endevor to instill my beliefs and values to her. But the two are entirely different items- knowledge is not corrupting or evil, if you have done well with your childern, they will have their own internal compass that will help guide them.
For what it is worth Rachel, this is another point you and I agree on- ignorace and fear are the enemies. George will have a time trying to find facts and data to show- the results of ignorace are pretty documented in terms of sex ed. And on occasion I have used the "what ever you do, don't do this" on my daughter to get to take a different path! :)
George- how is your day in Lone Grove? You are so close yet so far- again- ideas and knowledge are not the enemies here, and is not preparing their child for the world they will face if they hide the world's less than savory acpects away from them. What you do have as you point out is the ability to help provide them a good strong internal compass to guide them through the amgiguities of our world.




David, Oklahoma City - Sep 22, 2009 at 11:25 am
c-street ="the Family" = bad people who aim to take over government, who live outside conventional American morality because they are "God's choosen". Look up Doug Coe, educate yourself. These people are in powerful spots in our country. Here is a quote from their founder:
Doug Coe, David Coe’s father and leader of The Family fellowship going back to the mid ’60s, likes to call The Family “The Christian Mafia.” I knew Coe when I was part of The Family. He explained what it means to be a chosen politician.

Talking to another man, he said, “Let me explain to you the concept of ‘chosen.’ Suppose I hear you raped three little girls. What would I think of you?”

The man says, “You would think I was awful, a monster.”

And Doug Coe said, “No, I would not, because you’re chosen, and when you’re chosen, the normal rules don’t apply.”

chris, weatherford - Sep 22, 2009 at 11:21 am
With a Democratic governor and a Republican legislature, I don't think we're a single-party state. I do think there are facist leanings in those at the extreme ends of either party, however.
Gary, England - Sep 22, 2009 at 11:17 am
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Bob, frankly you calling me ignroant is humorous to say the least. You have no idea what I know, what my education is, etc. I know exactly what fascism is and I have read about the c-street group and can say without hesitation that they are fascists.
chris, weatherford - Sep 22, 2009 at 11:15 am
Whoa. Grammar.
stinkerpants, Oklahoma City - Sep 22, 2009 at 11:12 am
Fascists advocate the creation of a single-party state.[7] Fascist governments forbid and suppress openness and opposition to the government and the fascist movement.[8] Fascism opposes class conflict, blames capitalist liberal democracies for its creation and communists for exploiting the concept.[9]

I think we are VERY aware of what fascism is...are you?
John, Oklahoma City - Sep 22, 2009 at 11:11 am
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So, we should wait until kids are 16 or 17 before they have to be exposed to the very real problems of drugs, pregnancy, sexually transmitted disease, racism, hate crimes, etc.?
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Bob, explain to me what fascism is.
chris, weatherford - Sep 22, 2009 at 11:09 am
stinkerpants writes: "George, your bad spelling and grammer prove that you have no business keeping your children as ignorant as you are."

Uh, it's spelled grammar.

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How can we tell them that is okay to read things, but not okay to act that way?

You can't be serious? Can they not read Spongebob Squarepants because you fear they may drown while trying to live at the bottom of the ocean?
John, Oklahoma City - Sep 22, 2009 at 11:06 am
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You people crying "Fascism" have no idea what it is. Your ignorance is pathetic.
Bob, Bugtussle - Sep 22, 2009 at 11:06 am
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Mild quote from the book...I'm not seeing that this is appropriate for the ages in question!


OMG. No one can do that! But Trey can. And he does. And I learn something new. Something dark. Perverse, even. But the monster and me embrace it, beg him for more. Oh you like that, do you, you nasty little girl? If Brad were here, doing this to you, I might have to kill him. Either that, or ask him to share.
J, OKC - Sep 22, 2009 at 11:03 am
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Coburn and the other C-street people are certaintly fascist, and many of them hail from this state, so I am not surprised by fascist happenings in Oklahoma. I do, however, think that lectures at public schools should be age appropriate. I haven't read the book in question so I don't know if it is age appropriate, but certainly a guest speaker can make their event age appropriate regardless of what they have written.
chris, weatherford - Sep 22, 2009 at 11:03 am
Excellent post Blake and in a perfect world, that would be all that needed to be said...however, it is far from perfect. The problem is that it is impossible to have "intelligent debate and honest examination of issues" with unintelligent and dishonest people. Pick the topic, health care reform or this book in school or foreign wars. You have one group who's contribution to the debate is evoking the name of some supreme being that dictates their every action, or they throw out things like "death panels" and non-existent "weapons of mass destruction". It is akin to having a discussion with your child and their response is..."my imaginary friend did it". Until you convince them that they don't have any imaginary friends, or if they do, they have rally big problems...then how can intelligent debate ensue?
John, Oklahoma City - Sep 22, 2009 at 11:01 am
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I think the issue in this case isn't freedom of speech. Rather it is what is appropriate for our children to be exposed to while in school. I have read segments of the book in question and it is not appropriate for middle school age children. It is even rated for a 14 year old level. Yet 6th grade kids are allowed to check out this book at will without any notification or permission from the parents. If our kids spoke at school with the language that is on nearly every page, they would be punished. How can we tell them that is okay to read things, but not okay to act that way? I know that these books are supposed to be turning kids away from this kind of lifestyle, but I certainly don't want my children reading about how to smoke when you don't have a pipe or about sex when they are 12 years old. Our morality has gone out the window for the sake of free speech.

Thank you to the parent who actually cared enough to read what their child brought home and to bring it to all of our attention. I wish more of us cared so much about what is being fed to our students.
miranda, Norman - Sep 22, 2009 at 11:00 am
Blake, you or anyone else can "share" your views with anyone that "wants" to listen. How stupid to call that fascism. An author or for that matter anyone that wants to "share" their views within a school, comes at the request or permission of the school. Not the other way around. And, I sure don't want to listen to your views in the manner in which you speak on here.
Mike, Oklahoma City - Sep 22, 2009 at 10:56 am
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Bobby,

I agree completely with your last post. I too wish there was a self-edit button. Unfortunately, others on here don't even know they need it!
Gary, England - Sep 22, 2009 at 10:48 am
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This is fascism. Denying someone the opportunity to share their views in such a forum is fascism.

Sure, drug use is a challenging topic that is scary for parents and kids, but where better to learn how to tackle these issues than school? Where better than school for a child to learn to either solidify or change their beliefs, based on a frank, open discussion of a difficult topic? Is this sort of discussion going on at home? I'm sure in some homes it is, and one could make a compelling argument that home is a better place to learn difficult lessons about challenging topics, but I digress.

Weather or not a topic is difficult or controversial should not be criteria upon which to base banning a book, speaker or any other form of expression. School kids, scratch that, humans with a currently beating heart need the opportunity to learn about and discuss all topics, weather they are ugly and scary or not. The ugly and scary ones need to be discussed even more than the soft, easy ones!

I'm not going to make an ignorant, uninformed and short sighted comment about Oklahomans, because that's the state I grew up in and the state I love the most. I've lived a lot of different places and seen ignorance everywhere: Oklahoma, Illinois, Texas, Tennessee, and many other places I have visited.

What disturbs me most about the national climate today, especially in regards to politics, is that too many people cannot abide listening to opposing viewpoints. Rather than engage in intelligent debate and an honest examining of issues, we have people hurling insults, engaging in censorship and generally acting like angry buffoons.

When I was an idealistic, naive college student I wrote a naive, idealistic song that included this idealistic, naive line: "We don't have to see eye to eye, to go through life hand in hand".

If only more people felt the same way...
Blake, Memphis - Sep 22, 2009 at 10:48 am
becoming?
chris, weatherford - Sep 22, 2009 at 10:44 am
I am very amazed at the stupidity of some of the people in Oklahoma. I am a writer and very much respect the freedom of speech insured to us by our founding fathers. The book did not encourage drug use. That is done out on the streets that our children walk. Now you want to look at the books by this author to see if they are appropriate for the library. They are not porn or racist, these are well written books by a woman who has lived the issues. Oklahoma I am ashamed of you. Are we becoming a Nazi state?
Marsha, del City - Sep 22, 2009 at 10:39 am
George, sex-ed is not a failure at all! When school districts have done away sex-ed their pregnancy rate goes up. Here are some links to studies:

http://www.cfah.org/hbns/archives/getDocument.cfm?documentID=1676
http://www.advocatesforyouth.org/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=450&Itemid=336
http://thetyee.ca/Life/2009/03/25/SexEd/
chris, weatherford - Sep 22, 2009 at 10:39 am
States with the highest teen pregnancy rates are the most religious states.
http://www.usnews.com/blogs/erbe/2009/09/18/too-much-religion-leads-to-high-teen-pregnancy-rates.html
Milkman, Oklahoma City - Sep 22, 2009 at 10:34 am
It's not your school. The parents in Norman have decided how they want to operate their system. If you don't like it. then move huh? Brenda in Edmond actually read the above. It says for 14 and above. The author herself agrees with the school. Regardless of what her talk is about, the school made an appropriate response within their guidelines already in force. The media constantly pits one group against another.
Mike, Oklahoma City - Sep 22, 2009 at 10:34 am
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George: How am I full of it? IF the parents in this state did their job as parents - we wouldn't have high teen pregnancy rates, high drug and alcohol abuse among teenagers and an outrageous amount of STDs being shared by teens.

Perhaps you should stay in Lone Grove. We have REAL problems in the cities here.
Rachel, Midwest City - Sep 22, 2009 at 10:33 am
george, lone grove, Could you show some links to back up your theory that sex education has failed in schools? I'm curious. Is that your opinion or the result of years of data?
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Milkman, Oklahoma City - Sep 22, 2009 at 10:31 am
George, your bad spelling and grammer prove that you have no business keeping your children as ignorant as you are.
stinkerpants, Oklahoma City - Sep 22, 2009 at 10:29 am
I can only speak for myself, obviously, but I post my opinions in hopes that people in power(legislators, superintedents, etc) are reading the post to get a feel for thier constituency. I want there to be no question in their minds that we are not all right-wing, bible thumping, theocrats. Sure, my emotions run hot on the issue, but I don't think it is "periphery"...it is core to seeing this state emerge from the 1930's at some point.
John, Oklahoma City - Sep 22, 2009 at 10:28 am
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"here" not "hear" We need editing capability here.
Bobby, Edmond - Sep 22, 2009 at 10:27 am
censorship it the total ban on an item. Controling what our kids can and cannot have, do read, etc, is called parental control. The government schools trying to induce inappropiate materilas into our kids lives is unacceptable. If you wish YOUR child to have no bounds, then bring the author into your home and invite like-minded people there instead of forcing me to remove-retain at home, or otherwise having to keep me child from that. Schools have one thing they should have as their goal, and that is the training of our children in the neccesities such as english, math, etc. Moral teachings are for parents-families, churches, etc. Having said all that, i have absolutly no problem with the books as written. but they are not for our kids and schools to cover. Rachel, your so full of it, kids rebell EVEN when taught all there is to be learned at home about sex drugs etc, it is common occurence and your ideas of letting schools involve our kids in this will not stop it, see sex-ed, its a total failure as kids continu to increasingly get std's, even after all your scool classes on it.
george, lone grove - Sep 22, 2009 at 10:26 am
Gary, your last post was reasonable. Had the school taken that position, we would not be hear discussing this. As for some of the other posts. I also wonder how this degenerated into a bash forum for or against Christianity. I did not see anywhere in this story any links to christian beliefs. Bottom line, the parents have the right to ask what is being presented and how. The school should be able to justify what they presenting and why.
Bobby, Edmond - Sep 22, 2009 at 10:24 am
Chris - we all get like that. I have quit posting nearly as much on newsok because I let my emotions take the wheel at times. Emotions do not prevail in a debate.
Rachel, Midwest City - Sep 22, 2009 at 10:24 am
This reminds me of the incident in this State with the movie, "The Tin Drum".
Bob, Bugtussle - Sep 22, 2009 at 10:21 am
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my home state, and I end up getting angry and off point in my postings.
chris, weatherford - Sep 22, 2009 at 10:16 am
The author herself describes the book as being appropriate for ages 14 and above. Most middle school students don't turn 14 until sometime during their 8th grade year. I would have a problem with a district considering pulling the book out of a high school library, but based on the author's own description of the book, maybe it is not appropriate material for a middle school library.
Brenda, Edmond - Sep 22, 2009 at 10:15 am
I have to give kudos to kelly, rachel, and kristi. You make great points. I am sometimes unable to keep cynicism from overtaking me as i read these discussion boards in
chris, weatherford - Sep 22, 2009 at 10:15 am
Why not send home permission slips to let each child's parent decide if their child could listen to the author speak? Why keep the majority of children from hearing a message we ALL need to hear. I'm tired of small factions on either side polarizing this country! When is somebody going to have the fortitude to stand up to them and say NO!
Kelly, Wayne - Sep 22, 2009 at 10:11 am
1.) If you don't agree with the presentation then opt your child out of the presentation. 2.) The Color Purple was on the shelf in my junior high. I read it. It was vulgar, violent and spoke of rape. I learned a lot from it. I also read the Chronicles of Narnia which had heavy Christian undertones. Perhaps both of these are good examples of what should be censored by both the religious right and the atheists. 3.) When are parents going to learn that teenage rebellion will win out on this. If you tell your child NOT to do something (without explaining it fully) - they will do it. Go ahead and shelter your children - you will regret it. 4.) If parents would take the time to discuss drugs and sex along with their consequences - we wouldn't need people to write books about it.
Rachel, Midwest City - Sep 22, 2009 at 10:11 am
More Oklahoma wing-nuttery. Be the first one on your block to have a book burning party today!
Joseph, Scottsdale - Sep 22, 2009 at 10:06 am
Very sad that this opinion board has gone from the issue of sheltering children from certain evils that exist no matter how you want to hide them or pretend they don't. To attacking one another on religious beliefs. Fine, so don't make it REQUIRED reading for those that want to shelter their children. I hope you hold their hand all throughout life. They will be faced with much greater challenges in life than if they should or shouldn't read a book. And hopefully my children will be comfortable enough in their own belifs that they don't feel the need to argue about it with other people. We are all different. Our children will grow up together. I can only hope my children will not alienate others for differences and beliefs.
Kristi - Sep 22, 2009 at 10:04 am
What a bunch of stupid jerks. It's hard to understand why these people are so dumb!!!
rory, McAlester - Sep 22, 2009 at 10:03 am
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WTF is Jamie Chosak? As parents, we have a right to determine what is age appropriate for our kids. This isn't censorship, Jamie, it's called responsible parenting.
Boomer, Washington - Sep 22, 2009 at 10:01 am
Free speech,Free Press,Free Internet??Who will stop it.In a lot of cases it is well intended religous people.The higher church attendence in a state..like Oklahoma..The higher the Teen Pregnancy rates..Then they compain about pre kindegarten food programs or food stamps for innocent babies..
Jean, Fort Gibson - Sep 22, 2009 at 10:00 am
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I don't think this lady was going to READ THE BOOK to the kids. I bet half the parents of the kids at this school smoked pot or did other drugs growing up, and some of them had sex when they were 14!! Does that mean these parents can't talk to kids, either? Sometimes I am truly embarassed by my fellow Okies.
Chris, Jones - Sep 22, 2009 at 9:55 am
Mark, based on your description of the book, I would not want it to be used for a class study. I have no problem with it being on the library's shelf, however.

I also have no problem with the author's visit to the school. She wasn't going to come in and give an author's reading of the book's graphic scenes. She was going to talk about the process of writing and likely answer questions about getting published. A few students have likely read her books and might ask questions about where she gets the ideas for her stories. These are perfectly inoccuous things for kids to get to hear.
Gary, England - Sep 22, 2009 at 9:53 am
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Field of dreams.
jeff, del city - Sep 22, 2009 at 9:53 am
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how did this become about homeschool and football? now i remember why i don't usually bother to post opinions, people can't seem to remember what the original issue was when they are so busy fighting about inconsequential things in the periphery.
m, edmond - Sep 22, 2009 at 9:52 am
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It's the same old discussion by the same old rednecks--God Guns Gays.
Oh well, censorship has been around a while and it will be here when we're all gone.
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Milkman, Oklahoma City - Sep 22, 2009 at 9:48 am
Mark--don't think that is happening in this state? Don't think kids are dealing with it today?
stinkerpants, Oklahoma City - Sep 22, 2009 at 9:47 am
Next thing you know Sally Kern, Tom Coburn and Jim Inhofe will be having a tea bag party outside the school. Now if we tried to squeeze THAT out then there would be FREE SPEECH violations. *cough* Just another embarrassment to our state... AGAIN.
Elizabeth, Edmond - Sep 22, 2009 at 9:46 am
Here's a comment from the originator of the book review too.

What Parents Need to Know

Parents need to know that this book is about a girl's drug addiction: Not only does Kristina use meth constantly, but eventually she deals it for the Mexican Mafia. There are some fairly graphic depictions of sex, including a first orgasm and doing "Something dark. Perverse." Kristina's drug use gets her kicked out of the house; eventually she loses custody of her young son and begins committing crimes to support her habit (even robbing her mother). By the end of the book, Kristina is pregnant again.
Mark, Edmond - Sep 22, 2009 at 9:46 am
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Here some comments about the book from a book review


Kristina lies, steals, and neglects her young son -- all so she can keep doing drugs. The consequences are made painfully obvious.

Some fairly graphic depictions of sex, including a first orgasm and "Something dark. Perverse." Kristina's boyfriend doesn't mind when he finds her in bed with his cousin. By the end of the book, Kristina is pregnant again.

Some fairly graphic depictions of sex, including a f…
The mature subject matter is matched with plenty of mature language, including the F-word, "s--t," etc.
Mark, Edmond - Sep 22, 2009 at 9:46 am
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Kirk, have you read the Koran? It is the same as your bible, at least the old teastament. For that matter your bible tells the same stories as almost all of the other old texts, it has just been chnged to reflect the powers of western cultures views. Your god is no different from allah or anyone else. It seems the only different religion in this world are buddhism and hinduism.
chris, weatherford - Sep 22, 2009 at 9:45 am
Thanks for your concern. I will just take the risk of not believing in imaginary people and holy ghost and human eating whales and talking snakes and splitting oceans and resurrection of the dead and talking, burning bushes, and incestuous forefathers...sounds like a risk worth taking. On the other hand, if I'm right...everyone else sure waste a lot of time practicing thier mythology.
John, Oklahoma City - Sep 22, 2009 at 9:45 am
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Dude, Vince Young won a BCS Championship. Just saying.
Gary, England - Sep 22, 2009 at 9:44 am
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Kirk, reading to your own kids is fine. Using your religion to dictate what other kids can and can't read is opression.
stinkerpants, Oklahoma City - Sep 22, 2009 at 9:42 am
As a non-christian person in this state, how could one not feel prejudice against him?
chris, weatherford - Sep 22, 2009 at 9:40 am
Wow, John, reading the Bible and teaching kids about their, your, my creator is abuse? Again, wow. I sure hope your views on your existance are accurate, otherwise you are in for a huge surprise.
Kirk - Sep 22, 2009 at 9:39 am
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The point to be made here is that religion is being used in this state as an excuse for opression and abuse. The same people who banned this woman's book also want the kids beaten in school. We know them by their fruit.
stinkerpants, Oklahoma City - Sep 22, 2009 at 9:38 am
April-have you read the book?
J, OKC - Sep 22, 2009 at 9:37 am
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David, first of all don't call me stupid, or say even say that I look stupid. I have gone back read John's post and understand now. Still, just because a guy quaterbacks a team to a national championship it doesn't mean that the sporting activities of home schooled students are on par with public school sporting events. I could just as easily say that every quaterback for every national championship team ever, except for one, went to a public school (don't know if it's true, but you get the point).
chris, weatherford - Sep 22, 2009 at 9:36 am
Hey, David--why don't you go pray in tongues and get "saved" again? This kind of talk is a little rich for you.
stinkerpants, Oklahoma City - Sep 22, 2009 at 9:36 am
Ding, Ding, Ding...we have a winner...david in Newcastle!! First...I was not disparaging home schooling at all...second, the fact that you equate winning a national championship in football to home schooling success is beyond stupid and says a lot about your overall opinion of education. Dude...you really need to get out of Newcastle, if just for a weekend.
John, Oklahoma City - Sep 22, 2009 at 9:33 am
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stinkerpants is a name often used in refering to toddlers, who are not yet potty trained and crap or wet themselves...
david, Newcastle - Sep 22, 2009 at 9:33 am
J, do you not realize that the 11 year olds in your middleschool are also exposed to the 13-14 year olds in middle school who have sex and do drugs...which is the better influence, the book or the other kids? I know my answer...
April, Oklahoma City - Sep 22, 2009 at 9:32 am
In Oklahoma, you don't have to have any documentation or accreditation to home school. In my experience, there are a lot of home school parents and co-ops that do a great job. There are also those kids who are just home. They don't count as dropouts for the schools, but they might as well. I wouldn't offer a guess of the proportion of each camp. It might be 80-20 or 20-80. I'm just not comfortable painting with a broad brush and saying homeschool is great or it's lousy. There's too much variation.

That's probably true with public education as well. What seems to be lost in this discussion is the fact that the school's librarian used her own money to participate in this online auction and win the author visit. Good for you, Karin Perry!
Gary, England - Sep 22, 2009 at 9:32 am
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And depending upon which homeschool program a child is using, they have end of instruction exams that they must pass. I have several books used by homeschoolers (used as reference books when teaching) and they are usually ahead of the PS textbooks in materials being covered by grade.
Matt1, OKC - Sep 22, 2009 at 9:32 am
chris, if you took a moment to read johns post you would not look stupid by asking...
david, Newcastle - Sep 22, 2009 at 9:30 am
Well, waddya know? The Okie nutcases run off an accomplished author who wrote a book about something relevant that the kids are dealing with every day. Maybe that parent got her kid "saved" for the upteenth time down at the pew-jumping church.
stinkerpants, Oklahoma City - Sep 22, 2009 at 9:30 am
David, I am not deeply in the loop like I once was but I do believe that homeschoolers can take the OCCT tests at the end of the year that all the PSers take. It has to be arranged with the local school principal. And there are standardized tests that parents can pay to have their kids take to demonstrate proficiency.
Matt1, OKC - Sep 22, 2009 at 9:29 am
Young Mr. Tebow also won the Wuerffel Trophy, and has a 3.6 GPA- not bad indeed.
David, Oklahoma City - Sep 22, 2009 at 9:29 am
David, what does winning a national championship have to do with the quality of a home school education? Tebow doesn't seem like the brightest bulb in the bunch.
chris, weatherford - Sep 22, 2009 at 9:28 am
Most Okies would be horrified if their children read the book, "The Chocolate War". Another required reading book when I was in high school (1984).
Bob, Bugtussle - Sep 22, 2009 at 9:27 am
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Thaks for the link Matt1, what are the Oklahoma Dept. of Education standards and requirments for home schooling?
David, Oklahoma City - Sep 22, 2009 at 9:24 am
Ditto you Matt1, I know a couple of amazing younger adults who are amazing examples of home schooling. Most extreme case was the son of my old Latin teacher (don't ask!) who was home schooled, and ended up on scholarship at an Ivy League school-
I would just like to make sure these kids are receiving the education and knowledge they need to make it in the world or the parents have not done them any long term favors....
Bobby- you point is interesting and valid, there are lots of reasons behind why folks elect to home school, and the quality of the education they receive is the best of reasons to me.
Issues of fright and fear over exposure to ideas that differ from mine is just about the worst reason I could imagine...
David, Oklahoma City - Sep 22, 2009 at 9:22 am
hey john, tim tebow won a national championship last year as the starting quarterback of the florida gators,...he was home schooled you moron.
david, Newcastle - Sep 22, 2009 at 9:20 am
Most homeschool programs are accredited. The degrees are recognized by colleges and horror of horrors, colleges grant academic scholarships to these students too.

http://www.homeschool.com/ --- for any who ever think about doing this...
Matt1, OKC - Sep 22, 2009 at 9:19 am
New Flash...if you want your kid to read this book...then buy it for them or take them to the public library...this books has horrible language and sexual content...the author herself says it's not for kids under 14...so why is it on the shelves for 11 year old kids in our middle school?
J, OKC - Sep 22, 2009 at 9:17 am
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While I always make an effort to know what my daughter is studying, I also recognize that middle school/high school is plenty old enough for her to think for herself. She has to be able to think to see her way through this world, and I cannot provide her with ALL the information she needs. Also, with some of the responses I have read, I am not surprised to know that Oklahoma is one of the meth capitals in the US. Why should we try to hide things from our children when they are already facing them everyday? Let them learn in ways that do not require them to experience first hand the effects of drug abuse.
m, edmond - Sep 22, 2009 at 9:17 am
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Bob...the show you are referring to is an example of home "non" schooling. Those parents chose to keep thier kids out of public school for fear that they would gain enough knowledge to leave home and thus, leave the family farm short of help. Sounds a lot like some the people on this board and exactly like the superintendent of Norman schools. I truly believe some of these people think that education is evil and that kids should read their bibles and pray to the christian god and speak only when spoken to. Now that is abuse, as was mentioned earlier on here.
John, Oklahoma City - Sep 22, 2009 at 9:14 am
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Captain Obvious, Valid Points: You don't have clue what you are talking about. While I don't have the dedication required to home school, I work with several engineers who do just that. Those kids are involved in many activities and are as well rounded as any you will see anywhere. Some of these children have just enrolled in public schools and it unbelievable just how far ahead of the others students they are. You should refrain from discussing subjects you know nothing about.
Bobby, Edmond - Sep 22, 2009 at 9:12 am
Bob, some should not be involved in home schooling. Certainly, I think that proficiencies should be demonstrated. That said, there is an association of homeschoolers in the next county over that are as fine a young group as you'll ever meet and they are sharp too. We have friends who home-schooled, their kids were a couple years ahead of the PSers and got full university scholarships. So there are two sides to every coin.
Matt1, OKC - Sep 22, 2009 at 9:08 am
Censorship in Okie Land? Say it ain't so!
Kevin, Oklahoma City - Sep 22, 2009 at 9:05 am
I would be much more comfortable with home schooling if I could see standardized testing data that reflect even, if not advanced, standing compared to norms based on the state's schools. That would not be a great hurdle in Oklahoma to pass!
I am not saying I don't doubt there are many capable and even accelerated kids home schooled, I would just like some better accountability in the process-
Many states require as much of home schooling, I don't know, so help me out- does Oklahoma?
David, Oklahoma City - Sep 22, 2009 at 9:04 am
Home schooling? For a real eye opener on that, just watch that show about the hillbilly Duggar family in Arkansas. Momma home-schools the kids, and from what I've heard she barely has a sixth grade education.
Bob, Bugtussle - Sep 22, 2009 at 9:04 am
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Gary, I assumed from your post that you had enough credibility to at least be honest about your origin. Apparently from your last past, you live in Oklahoma and not England. Due to hitting the wrong button earlier, I lost part of what I had intended to post. My post should have said that there are reports around the country about school activities which many parents find objectionable. For instance, recently there was report about teaching 5 year olds about masturbation. Another a few years ago, a school required students to dress play roles while studying the Koran. I am sure that "progressive" thinkers have a reason for that. You don't see "gay day" celebrations in our schools and the reason is that the local population would not stand for it but it goes on in some of the more "progressive" areas. Our children will be exposed to all of this but parents have the right and responsibility to determine when and how. The children are not wards of state and enrolling them in public school does not change that. As for a teacher secretly requiring students to read a non approved book. That teacher should have been fired and banned from teaching. Who the hell does she think that she is?
Bobby, Edmond - Sep 22, 2009 at 9:03 am
BOO Norman Public Schools... Keep burying your head in the sand, Siano, you know there is a serious drug problem with the kids in Norman, but you won't even report the problems outside of your schools. Oh I know, it's 'cause of the parents and we don't want to give Jill and Jack a bad name and "label" them as a drug user.. Heaven forbid.... Not in Norman.... BOO BOO HISS
A, Norman - Sep 22, 2009 at 9:03 am
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THis series of books in no way glamorizes sex or drug use.They tell a true to life,terrifying tale of a young girl in too deep and needing help. My girls (high school and middle) read them.In our case, the books helped to really open my girls' eyes to the dangers they face in everyday life.These issues are out there.They are real.At school.At home.At the playground. And more recently I found out,in my case,at church.

courtney, Shawnee - Sep 22, 2009 at 9:00 am
Captain Obvious...perhaps you should attend an sporting event put on by one of the numerous home schooling organizations, or maybe speak to at least one home schooling set of parents before you take it to the "abuse" level...I am not a proponent of home schooling either, but its a long way from being socially depriving in any way...as a matter of fact most home schoolers are much more socialy adept than otherwise, because they do get out of the classroom and interact in a variety of other environments.
John, Oklahoma City - Sep 22, 2009 at 8:54 am
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The kids I know that are home schooled are certainly not socially deprived. Their interaction with other kids is just fine. I do know kids that are in public schools that could be called socially deprived as the other kids won't have anything to do with them or emotionally 'abuse' them for a variety of reasons.
Matt1, OKC - Sep 22, 2009 at 8:53 am
I couldn't tell from Jon's post if he was suggesting home school or stating that as the source of some of those posting on this article.
Gary, England - Sep 22, 2009 at 8:52 am
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Only violence is acceptable for any reading level. Sex & drugs can't be talked about...meanwhile our children kill prostitutes and police in video games all day long!
Barney, Mayberry - Sep 22, 2009 at 8:49 am
Jon says "Home School"? Let me finish that for you by saying Home School should be illegal. It is a form of child abuse because children that are home schooled are socially deprived.

Shouldn't there have been a review of the book before it ever hit the shelves of this library? What an embarrassing situation.
Captain Obvious, Valid Points - Sep 22, 2009 at 8:49 am
Bobby, I don't believe that there are "constantly gay or diversity days" as you posit. The next "gay day" I hear about at a public school in Oklahoma will be the first. Are there books on the shelves of our school libraries that have gay (or at least ambiguous) characters? Sure. Are there gay students and gay teachers in the schools? Sure. It's representative of society, just like any other public environment. There are gays at the grocery store, at the bank, serving you at restaurant, and even acting for you on stage at community theater, believe it or not.

As for diversity, that's a different story. Schools DO make a concerted effort to promote diversity, and with good reason. If you look at the demographics of our state, you can clearly see that we're not quite as white as we used to be. Still, 20 years ago, the language arts curriculum was almost exclusively filled with white, male authors. (Remember that S.E. Hinton wrote under her initials to make her work more acceptable to those who wouldn't want to read a book written by a woman.)

School is reflective of society. It is full of people from the community. In times past, the community was made of people who weren't that different from each other...in appearance, in behaviors, in values and norms. That's different now.
Gary, England - Sep 22, 2009 at 8:44 am
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How sad.
stephen, Elk City - Sep 22, 2009 at 8:43 am
Pick up Ray Bradbury's Farenheit 451. and d, austin, mind your own state's business, lord knows Texas isn't any better.
M, Oklahoma City - Sep 22, 2009 at 8:42 am
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Kristi, I too remember reading "Go Ask Alice" ... that book and the subsequent movie, while not an Academy Award winner, was very helpful to me in my adolescence. My civics teacher told me to read it (he was a great guy from a small town in Oklahoma that had just returned from Vietnam); he would have got into big trouble at our small, backwards country school if the school board had known about this. Half of the school board members had not even finished 8th grade and would NEVER have understood the context of the book. Such places and school boards still exist around America and absolutely in Oklahoma.
Ron, Oklahoma City - Sep 22, 2009 at 8:39 am
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Bob, Wellston, Gary, England (humm is that REALLY is your name!;)) and Donna, I agree with all of you on this.
"Glass", the book in question was read by my my own daughter last spring, and then based on her recommendation I read it. It is not glamourizing any aspects of drug use.
I am not claiming "airs" on anyone, but really try the approach my daughter and I use- we both are avid readers, and are always giving books to one anohter to read, and then we discuess them.
I don't see the "bury the head in the sand and act like whatever does not exsist" as a viable option when it comes to my child- the world is full of tough situations and I know in her life she will have her fair share of choices to make.
It is only by giving her adaquate knowledge, and then conveying my own opinions and values in specific discussion will be able to equip her to deal with those situations when, not if, they arise in her own life.
I find parents who want to censor a curious lot- they seem to feel by just exposing the ideas they will prevent it from being an issue to their kids...
Information and lots in active involvement with your kids is the way to help them. Hiding them and refusing the needed conversations is hurting them.
David, Oklahoma City - Sep 22, 2009 at 8:37 am
Just go to the State Fair and look around. No wonder there are people from Austin making fun of us.
Britton, Edmond - Sep 22, 2009 at 8:36 am
Doug, "...soft-core kiddy porn?" That was an intentionally inflammatory remark and totally unrepresentative of the material being discussed. And parents SHOULD get involved in whats going on in their schools but we are educating minds here not indoctrinating them. I bet if someone wanted to inclde superstition and magick in the curriculum it would be fine (as long as it was "the Bible"). Life is gritty and real; we cant hide it from our children.
Ron, Oklahoma City - Sep 22, 2009 at 8:34 am
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The problem is that the conservative faction thinks that education and expanded horizons are synonymous with "indoctrination". Of course, indoctrination is fine, as long its religious indoctrination, but god forbid(literally) we teach our kids that the world is a diverse place, with lots of different viewpoints. Argue that the President should not urge our kids to stay in school and be the best they can be, and authors should not teach them the perils of drug addiction...but keep voting for Sally Kern and asking for prayer in school...it is disgusting.
John, Oklahoma City - Sep 22, 2009 at 8:33 am
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The meth problem will never be gone. It is extremely addictive. Children need to know what could happen to them.
chuck, oklahoma city - Sep 22, 2009 at 8:31 am
I was born and raised in Oklahoma and had the honor of having an English teacher that secretly required us to read a banned book for her class. The book was Go Ask Alice. It was a diary of a teenaged girl that became addicted to drugs. She would write during drug trips, withdrawls, and flashbacks and about what she would do to get those drugs. The book told of prostitution and theft. It was laced with the dreaded F-BOMB and other curse words, BUT....... you know what? That book told it like it was and probably made me who I am today. I am now 33 and can proudly say I have never used drugs in my entire life. The book scared the fire out of me and you can bet my children will read it. The language is nothing your children don't hear and say while the parent isn't around. Children are much smarter than you think. The issues in these books are things that they are dealing with at much younger ages than when we were kids. Middle school children are becomming PARENTS and doing drugs. These books are not glorifying this, if anything Go Ask Alice made me NOT WANT to go that path. Please choose to educate them on these issues instead of fearing contamination. See it as an open window to discuss the book and the issue as well.
Kristi - Sep 22, 2009 at 8:30 am
Well, I am certainly glad there is a parent out there who is looking out for the moral welfare of my child, since I am obviously too stupid/lazy to do so. A speaker like this one might actually cause my child to start thinking for herself or examine her life in an introspective manner. If everybody did that, how could we expect to keep on electing all our right-wing politicians?
Sheryl, Oklahoma City - Sep 22, 2009 at 8:27 am
Many children are undereducated in this state because of the lack of parental involvement. Parents have the right and responsibility to question what their children are exposed to. If this book was not vetted by the school and they were not prepared to discuss and defend its content, then it should not be presented. And Gary, England, It is not too far fetched to bring up indoctrination. It happens all the time in other areas, not so much here because parents still have the right to get involved. Schools make students dress and role play while studying the Koran. There are constantly gay or diversity days and none of this has anything to do with basic education. You want to brings this stuff into the schools, get parental consensus and involvement or the choice to opt out. The village did not raise my boys, I did.
Bobby, Edmond - Sep 22, 2009 at 8:24 am
And then there are those like david, so desperate for the rest of the world to remain in arrested development so that he does not fall further and further behind. They are stuck following 2000 year old principles and can't understand why the rest of us so eager to move beyond that.
John, Oklahoma City - Sep 22, 2009 at 8:22 am
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What's next? When will the right wing zealots and Sally Kern's start buring unapproved books?
Chris, Warr Acres - Sep 22, 2009 at 8:17 am
SHOCKER! An Oklahoma parent doesn't want their child to hear about a drug that is knocking at their front door.
suzanne - Sep 22, 2009 at 8:17 am
Donna, I had an English teacher who always recommended the SE Hinton for 7th grade boys to write book reports. They were always *cough* recommended *cough*. We boy all loved the books (even the non-readers) and could really relate. I am going to make my son read a couple of them.

I was also explaining to him lately how people have worked to ban books in this country for years. Such classics as Tom Sawyer and Huckleberry Finn. I've let him know that people who work to ban books are closed-minded fools who believe others are too stupid to decide for themselves.
Bob, Bugtussle - Sep 22, 2009 at 8:15 am
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surprised but pleased that superintendant Siano had the courage to do the right thing and not fall prey to the shallow pressure from the politically correct crowd that is so desperate to fit in and be hip that they are willing and even eager to overlook what is best for the student body. Thank You Joe!
david, Newcastle - Sep 22, 2009 at 8:14 am
what was the timeline? how far in advance was the visit scheduled and made known to the parents? did the parent wait to ask for the review so the talk would have to be called off? There is a lot of information still unknown (at least from this article) to rush to judgement.
It is good the author will still have a chance to speak to the students AND PARENTS who want to hear her.
Jerry, Norman - Sep 22, 2009 at 8:11 am
Another embarrassment for the state. Our children are among the most uneducated(47th) and drug abusing(3) in the country and one idiot ruins it for the whole school. This is not the parents fault though, they have a right to ask questions...it is the schools fault for over-reacting and, more importantly, not being prepared to answer that parents question. Its no wonder our kids score so low on national test..they are being taught by morons.
John, Oklahoma City - Sep 22, 2009 at 8:11 am
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I remember in the late 70's early 80's that SE Hinton's books were considered controversial, but they were also required High School reading. As long as there is discussion to go along with the material, they do need to see the consequences of wrong choices. I hope Ms Hopkins has a lot of parents and children who do show up to listen to the life lessons and not go down that path!
Donna, Midwest City - Sep 22, 2009 at 8:10 am
Home school
Jon, Norman - Sep 22, 2009 at 7:59 am
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It's a leap to say this parent is a right-winger; there are closed-minded people on the left too. In any case, I wish the parent had simply chosen to hold his/her child out of the presentation rather than pressuring the school to cancel the visit.

As for the indoctrination comment by Bobby, I think that's a little bit far fetched.
Gary, England - Sep 22, 2009 at 7:52 am
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The book has some pretty explicit sex scenes. It's a little racy for middle school students, IMHO. I can see why a middle school parent parent would ask for a review. Not sure why the school would amplify a book review request into canceling an author's appearance. Surely this lady has written some books that aren't soft-core kiddy porn?
doug, norman - Sep 22, 2009 at 7:52 am
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Oops,sorry, the submit button got in the way of my post... Where are the thinkers???
barbara, drayden - Sep 22, 2009 at 7:46 am
Gosh, golly, gee OK. No Presidential speech. No author speech. No freedom of speech, except for tomcoburn and his idiot cohort re homosexuality ... what is happening to you out there in the heartland. Seriously, I'm afraid for your loss of thinking powers and deduction abilities. Where are
barbara, drayden - Sep 22, 2009 at 7:43 am
Many children in this State are repeatedly exposed to a book rife with sex, violence, war, murder, hatred, and many other acts of man. It's called the Bible.
Bob, Bugtussle - Sep 22, 2009 at 7:43 am
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We dont need tort reform, we need brain reform. I hate to break the news, but drugs are an issue at this age level. Probably more important at this age than later in life.
Joe Bob, Norman - Sep 22, 2009 at 7:36 am
How is it that one right wing retarded parent gets to make the decision for the entire school district? Yeah, we're really going to attract out of state businesses to come here when all some parents want to be taught is their narrow view of the universe. Morons.
dappiesdad, dappiesplace - Sep 22, 2009 at 7:30 am
You dumbass Okies leave me shaking my head in total disbelief.
Rick, Oklahoma City - Sep 22, 2009 at 6:09 am
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Anytime anyone questions what is being taught to our children, the liberals start making all sorts of claims ranging from censorship to racism. In this case a parent asked for a review. Good for that parent. From what is reported here, there will most likely be nothing too offensive but it is still the parents responsibility to at least be aware what is being presented to our children. For some reason liberals think that is OK to circumvent our parental rights in the name of indoctrinating our young with their views on progressive life. School is for educating our children not indoctrinating them. D, Austin, brings up two points. Many our our children do not know who the first president. Maybe schools should work on more math, history, science and english. Second, D moved to Austin. Good move since that appears the center of liberal thought in Texas.
Bobby, Edmond - Sep 22, 2009 at 5:57 am
What has Norman become, the Harper Valley PTA? If I expect you to see my point of view, then I should be willing to hear yours. I mean they really could say the same thing about J.K. Rowling but would Norman cancel her because she used that "word"? I mean my experience with education was that you took in a wide range of ideas and information and then disseminated it for your total knowledge experience.
John, Stigler - Sep 22, 2009 at 5:49 am
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"Chosak said she plans to send a letter to the school district because she feels it’s both censorship and a free speech violation. One parent’s issue with a book shouldn’t keep other students from having the choice to read it, she said."

Hmmmm, the book is simply under review. While under review it remains on the shelves. No student is being denied access to it or their choice to read it. Even if pulled from the schools shelves completely or age-restricted, isn't the book still available at the public library? Therefore, there is NO CENSORSHIP.

"This is not an issue of the author or quality of her work,” he said. "The question is about the appropriateness of the book for this age level.”

Again there is NO CENSORSHIP.

"Whittier librarian Karin Perry, who won the author visit in a charity auction, has scheduled an off-campus event tonight for students and their parents who would still like to hear Hopkins speak."

There goes the free speech violation allegation.
Larry, Oklahoma City - Sep 22, 2009 at 2:54 am
Wow. Your students can't identify the first American president and you are worried about this book. Shame. Oh, yeah. Par for the course and the reason many of us left. Congratulations.
d, austin - Sep 22, 2009 at 12:55 am
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I am so sick of the braindead right wing windbags in this state. if you don't want your kid reading the book, don't attend the lecture. Your kid is excused. I cannot believe Norman, of all places, would capitulate to this psychonut.
B, Oklahoma City - Sep 22, 2009 at 12:45 am
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I wish I had known about this visit. I would love to hear Ms. Hopkins. Keep on writing Ms. Hopkins. Many here wish you well, and think this is lunacy on the schools part. Keep up the good work, and I'm sorry you had to exerience this.
violet, yukon - Sep 22, 2009 at 12:26 am

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