“Mississippi State is a great university,” Shalonda said. “It's the things that transpired down there that nobody should ever be a part of.”
Then Romero transferred to Oklahoma, and on the first day, then-coach Jeff Capel told him he was going to have to work harder.
He spent his first year away from his wife and their newborn daughter. He began to grow and mature. He wasn't a kid anymore.
“When I was at Mississippi State, I could run home whenever I wanted,” he said. “Now, being 10 hours away, I can't go home except maybe once or twice a year.”
He learned how to be a husband and a father, a teammate who players could look to for guidance, as well as a well-developed threat on the court.
“He's matured tremendously,” Oklahoma assistant coach Lew Hill said. “He went from being a young man who didn't understand his potential to realizing his potential. He went from a guy who just wanted to shoot 3s to knowing he's a great inside-outside guy and he starts from the inside. I think he understands his potential and he's grown leaps and bounds, as far as being a leader.”
Osby got a second chance to prove that he could be a great basketball player. This season, he leads the Sooners in scoring (15.2 ppg) and rebounds (7.1 rpg), as well as field-goal percentage (.522). Although there are some first halves where it seems like Osby is having an off game, he has come back in the second half and has led (or tied for the lead) in scoring for 11 of Oklahoma's last 16 games. He is also one of the major reasons the Sooners could reach the NCAA Tournament for the first time in four years.
But he's not one for individual accolades. When Shalonda asks him about the possibility of being a big star in the NBA, Osby told her “if that's God's plan.”
Right now, Romero's all about business on the court and a lot of goofing around, just off of it.