OSU gave Ashley DeForest a place to call home

Father Joe DeForest promised to remain in Stillwater until daughter graduated high school
by Gina Mizell Published: January 15, 2012

STILLWATER — Ashley DeForest posted a photo on her Twitter account Thursday night of a dirty white hat with an orange letter “O” on the front.

It was the hat her father, Joe DeForest, wore backward on his head every game since 2001 while roaming the sideline as an Oklahoma State assistant coach.

“Something I will treasure forever,” Ashley's tweet said.

Talk to Joe, and he'll tell you that Ashley, his only child, is the biggest reason he stayed in Stillwater for 11 years.

He made a promise that he would not make her constantly move around like so many coaches' kids. He vowed he would stay at OSU until she finished high school.

“He wanted me to have a place that I could call home,” Ashley said while fighting back tears.

Promise fulfilled.

Ashley will graduate from Stillwater High School this spring, just before Joe begins his first season as the defensive coordinator or the co-defensive coordinator at West Virginia, a job he took last week.

“A lot of coaches put their job before their family, and he put his family first,” Ashley said. “It really meant a lot to me that I was more important to his job.

“A lot of my friends have moved, like, eight times, and I got to stay here and develop friendships and had a place to be for a long time.”

Ashley knew her dad would start seriously looking for a job after this season that would put him in a better position to someday become head coach. They and Joe's wife, Laura, had discussed it.

Joe interviewed for the head-coaching position at Houston last month. And when the opportunity came about to call defensive plays for WVU, where he will work on the staff of friend and former OSU offensive coordinator Dana Holgorsen, it was the right fit and the right time.

But for 11 years, the DeForests made a life in Stillwater while Ashley moved through elementary, middle and high school. Former Cowboy kicker Dan Bailey said Joe never flat-out told him he would stay at OSU until Ashley graduated, but he could tell that's where his coach's priorities were.

In the process, Joe became OSU's longest-tenured assistant and played a large role in some of the biggest moments in Cowboy history during the school's surge to national prominence.


by Gina Mizell
OSU Sports Reporter
Gina Mizell joined The Oklahoman in August of 2011 as the Oklahoma State beat writer, where she covered the Cowboys' historic run to the Big 12 championship and Fiesta Bowl in her first season on the job. Before arriving in Stillwater, Gina was...
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