Q:When my husband wears a suit jacket, the vent in the back stretches open. I think this indicates the jacket is too small across his rear. He says the vent is a comfort feature and is supposed to open up. Who is correct?
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A:The vent should lie flat and closed when he is standing. It will spread open when he sits down.
Q:I love to wear big hoop earrings, but the holes in my earlobes are stretched almost to the breaking point. Is there a way to correct the problem without surgery?
A:Earlobe support patches won't correct the problem but will help by reinforcing the lobe and preventing further damage. EarLifts, for example, are small patches of medical-grade material backed with hypoallergenic adhesive; simply peel and press the patches to the back of your earlobes before inserting hoops. The patches bear the weight of the earrings, sparing the holes from further stretching. Earlobe support patches can be found in most drugstores. EarLifts also are available online at earlift.com.
Q:My husband and I have been invited to a Ph.D. graduation brunch at an upscale hotel. I have a cute skirt, top and sweater I feel comfortable wearing. My husband has asked me to wear the three-stone diamond earrings, necklace and bracelet he has given me. Are they too dressy for a Sunday brunch? What time of day and occasion is most appropriate to wear diamonds?
A:Individual diamond pieces, especially basics such as engagement rings, stud earrings and tennis bracelets, are appropriate anytime, anywhere. A set of diamond pieces (earrings, bracelet and necklace) is pretty dressy, especially for brunch, which typically begins before noon. Three-piece sets are usually reserved for evening events.
Also, your outfit doesn't sound formal enough for all that bling, even though the brunch is in a fancy hotel.
There is a way to honor your husband's wishes while not appearing overdressed: Weart one or two of your diamond pieces — just the necklace, for example, or the earrings and bracelet. If he still wants to see you wearing all three pieces, suggest returning to the hotel later for cocktails or dinner.
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