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Questions remain after Noble girl's suicide

BY MICHAEL BAKER Published: March 21, 2010

NOBLE — For days, the 11-year-old lay there dead, dressed in a purple T-shirt decorated with a butterfly pattern.

Stephanie Wilcoxson committed suicide, a state medical examiner concluded. Death caused by very high levels of methadone in her body.

But the questions don’t end there.

A methadone overdose, a finding of suicide, Stephanie’s young age, her father’s suicide in 2005 and a continuing investigation all combine to shroud the girl’s December death in more questions than answers. Conjecture and some innuendo have circulated around Stephanie’s hometown of Noble, a growing one-high school town of 5,800 people situated just south of Norman.

"I don’t think anybody knows what to think,” said Cassie Huddleston, who taught Stephanie in kindergarten. "Nobody could imagine Stephanie taking her own life. What could be that bad?”

The medical examiner’s suicide determination places the 11-year-old in a small, tragic group.

Suicide accounted for the deaths of 195 U.S. children ages 5 to 14 in 2007, according to the latest numbers from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. The federal agency calculated 6,091 deaths for children that age in 2007.

What caused Stephanie’s death is not so uncommon. Methadone, which is killing people at a greater rate than other prescription painkillers, is used to treat both pain and drug addiction, according to the CDC.

The Oklahoma State Bureau of Investigation continues to look into Stephanie’s death and has not changed its approach in light of the coroner’s conclusion earlier this month.

"No, it would not (change), especially when you’re talking about a young girl like that,” said OSBI spokeswoman Jess-ica Brown. "(Stephanie’s death) is not the only thing we’re focused on. ... You have to ask yourself where she got those drugs.”

Stephanie’s life
Stephanie was born May 12, 1998, to Darrell and Janice Wilcoxson, who married in 1992. Stephanie grew up in Noble.

By all accounts, she was a polite and loving sixth-grader when she died.

"My child is a 6th grader with Stephanie, on the last day of class before break my child noticed Stephanie getting a hersheys from the vending and splitting it between a few of her friends, celebrating another ones birthday ... What a sweet, unselfish, thoughtful thing Stephanie did,” wrote a parent on a Web site set up for remembrances.

One child wrote, "she is the best freind i ever had. she is very nice to me.”

"Stephanie was a very positive outgoing child,” said Stephanie’s grandmother, Kay Wilcoxson. "You’d ask her, ‘How was school today?’ and she’d say, ‘awesome, awesome, great, great.’ She loved her little friends.”

While life at school was good, life at home was not always as pleasant.

On July 3, 2005, Steph-anie’s father, Darrell Wilcoxson, 41, committed suicide by shooting himself, Noble Police Chief Keith Springstead confirmed. Stephanie was 7.

Stephanie and her father were especially close, Huddle-ston recalled. "She was his everything and you could tell.”

Before Darrell Wilcoxson’s suicide, Stephanie’s parents were active in school, Huddleston said. After his death the participation fell off.

"After her father passed away, her and her mother went through a really hard time,” Huddleston said.

Stephanie and her mother continued to live in the same home on Noble’s south side in a neighborhood mixed with well-kept and somewhat neglected homes on large lots. The mailbox still has Darrell Wilcoxson’s name on it. has disabled the comments for this article.

Suicide is the second-leading cause of death among people ages 10 to 24 in Oklahoma, according to statistics from HeartLine, a suicide prevention program for central Oklahoma. The group formed in 1971 and provides suicide prevention outreach and listening and crisis intervention.

For more information on the program visit

For a suicide crisis, call (800) 273-8255.


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