Rep. Kern says gay group took too much from cordial meeting
Gay rights group releases Kern audio recording
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By Devona Walker
Published: April 10, 2008
A gay rights group released a 40-minute audio recording Wednesday of a meeting between members of the group and state Rep. Sally Kern in hopes of shedding light on the content and context of that meeting.
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In the days after that meeting, Kern said she was alarmed by the number of thank-you e-mails she received from the gay community.
"I told them that I did not think homosexuals should be fired just because they are homosexuals. They took that as meaning I supported sexual orientation preferences, and I do not,” Kern said. "I started getting e-mails from the homosexual community thanking me for backing off on my stances. So evidently, they misunderstood me.”
But organization members said they never said Kern supported sexual orientation protections. In statements released after the meeting, the group reiterated that Kern made it clear she was not apologizing for or recanting her statement about gays.
"We were baffled by her remarks. At the meeting she was cordial, she was not confrontational and she seemed to approach the meeting with an open mind,” Newton-Edwards said.
The recording released Wednesday indicates Kern and group representatives refused to back away from their positions, but discussed the issues calmly. They prayed together at the start of the meeting and at its conclusion. In the recording, Kern is heard saying firing people from their jobs because they are gay is wrong, but she also said she did not support passing anti-discrimination laws based on people's sexual orientation.
Wednesday, Kern said the organization did not intentionally misrepresent her statements, but they implied she supported sexual orientation protections.
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OSBI reading Kern e-mails [080312]
http://www.tulsaworld.com/news/article.aspx?articleID=20080312_1_A13_hThey04584
http://americansfortruth.com/news/full-transcript-of-oklahoma-rep-sally-kerns-speech.html
I don't "say" it, it's a fact.
"I think they are one and the same."
Then you're wrong! They're NOT the same. A homosexual virgin is still gay. A gay person who is 98 years old and hasn't had sex in 50 years is still gay. Homosexuality is an orientation, NOT an action. It's not something you do, it's something you ARE.
"However, let's look at your view. If a homosexual has sex, then that homosexual is or is not committing a sin according to the description of the "act"?"
Not neccessarily. I've said before that what I'd describe as "catting around" is a sin, regardless of the sex of those involved. Sex within a committed, loving, respectful, monogomous relationship...ideally a marriage, is NOT a sin, whether gay or straight. I've said before we shouldn't just allow gays to marry, we should ENCOURAGE it. Saying "sex belongs in a marriage" then becomes a reasonable, fair standard for everyone.
"Homosexuality has always been described as "having sex with the same sex".
Hogwash. It's "always been described as that" by people who didn't know what they were talking about. Take a gay person. He lost his virginity somewhere along the way, had sex for the first time. Was he homosexual the day BEFORE that happened? Of course he was.
If I'm raped by a man, I've had sex with a man. Am I homosexual? Of course not. Neither are the men in jail who have sex with men simply because there are no women available. Homosexuality is defined as being sexually and romantically attracted to people of the same sex. THAT'S IT. If you don't ever have sex with a person of the same sex, you are STILL homosexual if you're attracted to them.
"I would, however, like to read more concerning your description, so if you wouldn't mind, could you share some url's regarding your interpretation?"
There's no "URLs" to be had here, it's the meaning of the word. Do you want URLs to express the meaning of "view"? Or "according"? Or "same"? It's what the word means. Again...a gay virgin is still gay.
"thanks in advance. The Bible addresses many issues regarding the "act" of sex. I only pointed out two "acts", but there are many that this world still performs that were an issue thousands of years ago."
The ONLY place in which same-sex sexual relations are mentioned is in two place in Leviticus. Unless you can honestly say you think ALL Leviticus should be followed...I hope you have lots of stones handy...this is meaningless. The New Testament doesn't mention it once. Jesus never said a single word about homosexuality, which is amazing since some treat it as such a horrible sin, you'd think the Lord would have brought it up once or twice!
"Please note that NO hurtful meaning was implied."
You know, I know that and I'm somewhat sympathatic but at the same time these lies are destroying lives and killing people and at some point I'm one hell of a lot more sympathetic to the true victims here than to those who are causing the damage with lies when the information isn't that hard to come by and taking a decent stand on this issue really isn't that difficult.
"I also agree with you when you mentioned that minds do change. I do hope you realize that just because people are against the "acts" that they are not expressing bigotry."
And I hope YOU realize that speaking out against the way some people express love for others harms them tremendously whether you intend to or not, and I doubt seriously they really care that much how "intentional" it is. Christians have to become aware of what the life of a typical gay person's like because of the lies WE are spreading. How much longer do we get to close our eyes, throw bricks out a 20th story window, and pretend we didn't mean to hit anyone while people continue to tell us that they're finding people dead at the bottom of our landing because someone hit them in the head with a brick from above. Saying "these actions are wrong" is throwing bricks out the window, and they're hitting people. Now you know. You cannot claim any longer that you don't mean to hurt people with these statements.
"And, just because people are against the "acts" doesn't mean that they don't love or wish the very best for that person."
Yeah, actually, it DOES. I don't believe any person to be so stupid as to honestly care for another and not notice the harm coming to them because of homophobia in our society. If you REALLY love them, pay attention to what's happening to them because of people going around condemning their private life, which really does harm NOBODY.
"I am speaking from very personal experience. Enjoy."
I hope the personal experience continues, because that's really where most people start figuring this one out. An awful lot of pretty darn bigoted people figure out that gays aren't that bad when they suddenly learn that a nephew that they always really liked is gay, or a favorite co-worker...or their son or daughter. Some figure it out then.
Some don't, though, and that's where the real bad stuff happens.
That is NOT homosexuality. It's not described to a "T" or AT ALL. That is a description of a sex ACT. Homosexuality is an ORIENTATION, not an act. A gay virgin is still gay.
"it even describes man having sex with animals."
Which is not even REMOTELY connected, and it's horribly insulting that you even mention it here. It happens all the time, and tells gay people that the love they feel for another is not only invalid, but that you're not people, just animals. Whether sending that message intentionally or not, it's an insulting comparison.
"Probably the best website I have found that does not slant one way or the other, but provides great reading to understand both sides of the story is here: http://www.religioustolerance.org/hom_bibl.htm."
I don't agree entirely, but there is some interesting information there. I very strongly disagree with the basic notion that nobody's mind ever changes on this. LOTS of people who used to be either homophobic or didn't care become aware that someone they care about is gay, look more closely at the issues and realize how wrong bigotry is and how unjust the treatment of gays in our society, especially by our churches, is.
"FYI: I have read the greek and latin translations, and they also provide detailed descriptions of homosexuality (the authorized received text--Textus Receptus)."
No, they absolutely do NOT. They might describe sex ACTS, but you obviously still don't recognize that homosexuality is NOT an act. It's not something you do, it's something you are.
"The word homosexuality is never mentioned in the Bible because it derives from our living language (always changing) and the Bible was written in dead languages (meaning of the root words never change). "
Making it completely wrong and foul to claim the Bible condemns homosexuality, when it does NOT. No, the word didn't exist, the very idea of homosexuality wasn't know. Therefor Paul COULDN'T have condemned it in Romans and elsewhere. He was talking NOT about homosexuality, but something else, but King James still misused the word, and many still misquote him. In reality homosexuality STILL is never mentioned in scripture. And you therefor CANNOT claim it's a sin.
A few weeks later, in the middle of a discussion on genealogy, the teacher again digressed into the subject of homosexual behavior. Kyle asked again what homosexuality had to do with the subject. The teacher again questioned his sexuality and implied that he might be covering up the fact that he was homosexual. Kyle stood up and denied the accusation, stating he had a girlfriend. The class snickered at him.
One classmate went as far to suggest that the girlfriend was a cover-up and that Kyle was a closet homosexual. Devastated and humiliated, Kyle’s grades dropped from a 3.70 GPA to 2.10 in the months following the incident.”
As Kyle was being taught that homosexuality is genetic, we are fed a steady diet of sensationalized studies which assert that homosexuality is an immutable characteristic
That's highly debatable, and irrelevent for several reasons. First off, ANYONE believing this is wrong. It's proven false. Secondly, their being Christian or not has NOTHING to do with it, since the Bible doesn't say a word about homosexuality. Homophobia is NOT a Christian trait, and bigots MUST stop using the Prince of Peace as an excuse to promote hate and discrimination.
"Conversely, I would bet that the majority of non-religious individuals believe that it is not a choice."
Again, one's faith or lack thereof is not remotely relevent to this. It's a scientific FACT that sexual orientation is not chosen, and a person can be a Christian, Muslim, athiest, or whatever and that won't change a bit. If a person wants to believe hateful lies, that's their choice, but it's NOT Christian.
"Though I think you can more easily compare level of education, in that, more educated individuals tend to believe you are born homosexual."
That's obvious. A person must have not only a lack of education, but an outright hostility towards being educated, to hold the belief that people simply choose to be gay, and this hostility to education is NOT Christian, either...those who make the claim that it is whether we're talking about stem cell research or evolution or sexual orientation are immoral and unChristian. Scientific study of the wonder of God's creation, learning more about it, ESPECIALLY when it helps us reduce human suffering, is a Christian thing to do.
"Some people read and some people listen. Some people think and some people accept without thinking. Preston fully believes he is having an intelligent discussion, but he is not."
I agree. However, just as there are those who have minds snapped and rusted shut when it comes to learning and scientific fact, there are those equally closed-minded as to the existance and divinity of God. And stereotypes are always going to prevent people from finding the truth, whether they're stereotypes about gay people OR people of faith.
"There are rules that govern proper debate and he has decided (unknowingly) to circumvent those basic rules, like red herrings. Religion should have no part in determining the rights of man."
That's the wrong way to look at it. You don't have to believe to follow the law, but God's laws ARE the original source of how to treat others, including not discriminating against others, not lying about them, not causing them suffering as people like Rep. Kern are causing suffering for gay people in a very sinful way. And I know you don't agree with that, but it's where people of faith come into this, and people HAVE to see that not everyone who believes that is a fundementalist or a homophobe.
"People don't kill because the Bible says so, but because it is common sense."
NO, you're absolutely wrong. BOTH are part of this. People absolutely DO follow these laws because they're God's teachings, lots of people. Not all people, naturally, but many many people, probably most people don't do things like that because of a religious faith or another.
"You can be a good person without Jesus."
I absolutely agree, but a better purpose of life comes from living for Christ. Either way, I'm part of a fairly "liberal" (I hate the term, but it's the way most understand things) part of the church that believes in "universalism," in other words, Christ died to save you whether you believe in Him or not. Put simply, I don't believe God created this hell to torture the vast majority of the people God created and loves individually just because they're confused about God or picked the wrong "team."
"I have seen so many religious leaders fall in the last year."
All people are short of perfection, that isn't a reflection on God. I'm frankly sick of people trying so desperately to place the human failings of a few into such over-importance as if it reflects on ALL believers.
"Our own president believes that God elected him president,"
Yeah, well, our president has a lot of bad and wrong ideas.
"therefore he must also believe that God wanted him to go to war with Iraq and slaughter hundreds of thousands."
Wow, that's an incredibly ugly and daft way of describing our attempts to free the people of Iraq and Afghanistan from the horrific trap into which they'd fallen with the Taliban and Osama. How it's been conducted could definately have been done better, but we are NOT there to "slaughter" but to give people a freedom they did not have before, and to make the whole world safer. It's every bit as intentionally misleading and foolish to call this "The US going in and slaughtering hundreds of thousands" as it is to call homosexuality a "chosen lifestyle."
"Our nation is a melting pot of religion, therefore one religion should not rule over the others,"
I agree, but very few disagree.
"love and common sense should."
Unfortunately, one assumes that you think YOUR view of "common sense" is the best one. In many cases, you'd probably be right. In some, you'd be quite wrong. That's the wonderful thing about freedom, we all have the right to be wrong about some things and so long as we're not harming others, that's fine. It's when we have situations like the discrimination against gays, which IS harming people, that the "right" to hold the clownish beliefs of Rep. Kern has crossed the line.
It's no more "artificial" for people to have children using science than it is for people who are sterile to use insemination, or for cessarian sections to be used for people who cannot have children the "ordinary" way.
"Therefore, if an alleged “gay gene” did exist, the homosexual population eventually would disappear altogether."
Again, that's just idiotic. This assumes that a person cannot have a gene and it's traits unless their parents do. Does every left-handed person have left-handed parents? Of course not.
"We now know that it is not scientifically accurate to refer to a “gay gene” as the causative agent in homosexuality."
Lie. You know nothing of the sort. You're trying to push PROVEN lies, for the most immoral and hateful of reasons...don't pretend to know anything about science while you've got your mind stuck in the 19th century, you're just making a fool of yourself all the further.
"The available evidence clearly establishes that no such gene has been identified."
Lie. The vast majority of scientic research in this topic points ONLY to a genetic cause.
And science has proven beyond a shadow of a doubt that YOUR "conclusion," that gay people just choose to be gay and can choose not to be, is a ridiculous load of malarky.
"Additionally, evidence exists which documents that homosexuals can change their sexual orientation. "
Lie. NO evidence of this exists at all, only sham claims that have been solidly refuted. There is no such thing as a former homosexual, and the hate groups claiming to have "cured" homosexuals have ZERO legitimate research, ZERO studies published in peer-reviewed journals, ZERO long-term followups. This is a total sham. Sexual orientation can NOT be changed. A gay person will be gay their entire life, which is fine because there's nothing wrong with being gay.
"Future decisions regarding policies about, and/or treatment of, homosexuals should reflect this knowledge."
It's not knowledge, it's dispicable bigoted lies. Lawmakers' decisions should be based on LEGITIMATE science, and the most American of standards, that ALL people were created equal.
Because being homosexual does not require homosexual parents, just as there are left-handed people whose parents aren't left-handed.
"Why are there bisexuals that flow back and forth? "
They don't "flow back and forth." They're bisexual. Again, it has been proven beyond all doubt that sexual orientation is NOT chosen, and can NOT be changed, yet you continue to push proven lies, for the sole purpose of making your bigotry and fear seem rational, when they're not.
"Behaviors are learned."
Sexual orientation isn't a behavior, and is NOT "learned" or chosen. You didn't choose to be attracted romantically and sexually to the opposite sex, it's how God created you.