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Rules set for Oklahoma Episcopal parishes to offer same-gender blessings

Guidelines have been established for same-gender blessing ceremonies to be performed in Oklahoma Episcopal churches, a state leader with the denomination said recently.
by Carla Hinton Published: April 30, 2013

Guidelines have been established for same-gender blessing ceremonies to be performed in Oklahoma Episcopal churches, a state leader with the denomination said.

The Rt. Rev. Ed Konieczny, bishop of the Episcopal Diocese of Oklahoma, said three parishes already have expressed interest in starting the process so they can conduct such ceremonies, although he does not believe “there are large numbers of people out there waiting for this.” He declined to name the interested parishes, as they have yet to request formal approval.

“I don't expect that this is going to be a floodgate of things. We will make it available and people will take advantage of it according to who they are,” he said.

Konieczny said the guidelines were developed with help from a committee of lay leaders and clergy, then fine-tuned after several public meetings at Episcopal parishes across the state.

“I think they worked very hard,” Konieczny said of the committee. “They did a really good job, I think, in finding a balance in what the resolution our General Convention of the Episcopal Church calls us to in the context of where we find ourselves in Oklahoma.”

The Rev. Scott Hamilton, executive director of the Cimarron Alliance, an advocacy group for the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender community in Oklahoma, hailed the diocese's establishment of the new policy. Hamilton also is associate pastor at Church of the Open Arms in Oklahoma City, under the United Church of Christ.

“I'm grateful to see that after a very long period of discernment, the Episcopal Church has said ‘We need to recognize all people of God and celebrate love between two people who love each other,'” Hamilton said.

“It is especially important in Oklahoma when we have such intolerance voiced from the state Capitol, for a mainline denomination to stand up against that intolerance and say ‘No. We believe that love is a gift from God and that it is a love to be celebrated in the Church.'”

The diocese's new policy for same-gender blessings comes after an almost yearlong process of evaluation and recommendation for guidelines.

Konieczny said the policy has been posted on the diocesan website so that anyone can learn the details.

The bishop formed the committee last fall after the Episcopal Church USA's General Convention approved a resolution July 2012 allowing clergy to use a same-gender liturgical blessing called “The Witnessing and Blessing of a Lifelong Covenant.” The measure stated that the blessing could be used beginning Dec. 2, 2012. It also included an amendment recommended by Konieczny that gives bishops oversight on the same-sex blessing in their dioceses and protects clergy from being forced to perform such rites. Konieczny spent much of September traveling across the state to discuss the matter with Episcopalians.

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by Carla Hinton
Religion Editor
Carla Hinton, an Oklahoma City native, joined The Oklahoman in 1986 as a National Society of Newspaper Editors minority intern. She began reporting full-time for The Oklahoman two years later and has served as a beat writer covering a wide...
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