20-40-60 Etiquette: Shower/wedding invitations

How can I host a shower with bride’s mother’s friends if they aren’t invited to the wedding? 20-40-60 Etiquette answers, with Christina Nihira as guest.

BY CALLIE GORDON, LILLIE-BETH BRINKMAN, HELEN FORD WALLCE Modified: June 9, 2012 at 12:00 am •  Published: June 10, 2012

QUESTION: Have things changed since I got married? The daughter of a good friend is getting married and wants none of her parents’ friends invited, although there will be more than 100 guests there. The parents are paying for the entire wedding.

I feel I should give...

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