“I basically had to start over from scratch,” he said. “They basically had their team already set from last year.
“I was basically like an add-on.”
And he was happy to be.
Cox is thankful every day for the chance to be back in football, even though he plays nickelback and is used sparingly. He plays primarily against three- and four-receiver sets. That meant lots of snaps a couple weeks ago against Green Bay, for example, but in the Super Bowl against Baltimore, a more traditional offense, there are likely to be few plays for Cox.
You won't hear him complain.
“It's just a blessing to actually be there,” he said.
He gained that perspective from the adversity that he faced the past couple of years. He relishes the here and now. He refuses to be bitter about anything.
That means that everything is good these days.
“I'm great, I'm great, I'm great,” Cox said. “Can't complain.”
“That's my response to everything.”
He admits he's had constant pinch-me moments this past week. He'll be eating with teammates or getting treatment or doing the most mundane thing when it hits him that he's heading to the Super Bowl.
“We're really in the Super Bowl,” he'll say. “That's crazy.”
Cox knows that his spot in this game has probably resurrected talk about his legal troubles. He wishes that wasn't the case, but he realizes that it will forever be part of his story. He knows that it is part of who he is.
That's why he has no plan to rip out that chapter.
“Being from where I was last year, it just made me stronger in every phase,” Cox said. “Everybody's got a story that makes them stronger.”
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San Fran Connections to Oklahoma
Here's a look at the 49ers who have ties to our fair state:
Perrish Cox: The Niners cornerback was a star on defense and special teams at Oklahoma State from 2006-09, but his Cowboy career ended with a thud when he was suspended for the Cotton Bowl as a senior for missing curfew. Drafted by Denver, he spent one year with the Broncos before spending last season out of football with legal issues.
Kendall Hunter: The Niners running back was an All-American at OSU. From 2007-2010, he rushed for 4,181 yards and 37 touchdowns. In his second year in San Francisco, he was the No. 2 tailback, but since tearing his left Achilles in November, Hunter has been on injured reserve.
Jim Leavitt: The Niners linebackers coach was co-defensive coordinator with Bob Stoops for four seasons at Kansas State. Both left Manhattan after the 1995 season, Stoops to become defensive coordinator at Florida, Leavitt to take over as head coach of the new program at South Florida.
Brad Seely: The Niners special teams coach is a former Oklahoma State assistant. He was the offensive line coach from 1984-88 when his blockers cleared the way for Thurman Thomas or Barry Sanders or both all five years. This is Seely's fifth Super Bowl, his first four coming during a decade spent as New England's special teams coach.
Paul Wulff: The Niners senior offensive assistant is the former Washington State coach. He made his head coaching debut in 2008 vs. Oklahoma State.