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Will a 'chill' bride cause as much distress as the uptight bride?

Bridezilla and Bridechilla have a lot in common: They both want their wedding day to be filled with joy. And they both appear to provide a fair amount of pain and stress to the members of their wedding parties. Don't know Bridechilla? Read on.
Lois M. Collins, Deseret News Modified: August 20, 2014 at 11:53 pm •  Published: August 22, 2014
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Bridezilla and Bridechilla have a lot in common: They both want their wedding day to be filled with joy. They also both appear to provide a fair amount of pain and stress to the members of their wedding parties.

Don't know Bridechilla? That may be a good thing, according to an account on Huffington Post by Rachel W. Miller, who wrote about the anything-but-laid-back stress this "chill" gal creates for those around her.

The Urban Dictionary offers this description of the oh-so-cool bride: "A bride that remains calm, cool, and collected during her entire wedding experience. Bridechillas never use phrases such as 'my day, the most important day of my life, don't ruin my day, etc.' A bridechilla is not defined by her wedding …."

But there are frostier descriptions.

Jodi Chick, who served as a recent bridesmaid for a too-relaxed pal, described the dilemma to Miller: "My friend was absolutely 100 percent not the kind of girl who had dreamed of her wedding her whole life, and she found the idea of putting on an event of that size totally overwhelming. Since she had no vision, everything was a possibility, and she had a huge fear of missing out. To her, everything seemed like a good idea. 'Do you want printed invites or handmade?' 'That sounds nice!' 'Do you want bright blue or pastel blue?' 'I like all blues.' 'Which cake flavor do you like?' 'I don't know, which one do you like?' She was so easygoing and eager 'not to be a hassle' that it was actually a nightmare."

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