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You know you're a happy parent if...

Looking to be a happy parent? Here are some ways to do that.
Herb Scribner, Deseret News Modified: August 21, 2014 at 5:52 pm •  Published: August 21, 2014
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Happiness for parents comes in a variety of different ways.

A research paper from the Psychological Bulletin found that parents tend to be more stressed out and unhappy in modern America because of financial woes, lack of sleep and even general marriage troubles. This was something that researchers from the University of Michigan also found.

But research from the Psychological Bulletin revealed that there are multiple ways parents can find happiness despite dark storms around them. No matter how troubling times may be, happiness is possible for parents, both young and old.

“[W]hen parents experience greater meaning in life, satisfaction of their basic needs, greater positive emotions and enhanced social roles, they are met with happiness and joy,” the study said.

So how do you know if you’re a happy parent? Well, you’ll know if …

… you’re the right age

A parent’s age has a lot to do with how happy they feel, according to the University of California Berkeley. Parents ages 25 or younger seem to find more stress while raising kids, while the older parents find time to settle down to take care of their kids.

“[O]lder parents report feeling more mature, competent and less stressed than younger parents, while younger parents report more feelings of restlessness, isolation, and stress about finances,” wrote Emily Nauman for Berkeley.

… you have family dinner

Research has found that having family dinner can give children a boost in life. The Family Dinner Project found that kids who have family dinner tend to have a healthier lifestyle and are better adjusted for the world.

But the dinner also benefits parents, according to Katie Kelly Bell from Forbes. Having family dinner allows kids and parents to create everlasting memories that’ll serve to inspire in the future, Bell wrote.

“We build gratitude, relationships, memories, and a history together — each night — around our beat-up, notched-from-school-projects, weathered and worn, wonderful old table,” Bell wrote.

… you have family game night

Three studies all found that parents have a major influence on the academic success of their children, which in turn, makes the parents happy. According to Education Week, a parent's happiness increases when they see their own child succeed. Family game night can help with that. Jessica Lahey of The Atlantic explained that family game night improves executive function skills and builds self-confidence for the kids.

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