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Your Life: sets the record straight about urban myths

Charlotte Lankard: will sort out the truth about urban myths.
BY CHARLOTTE LANKARD Modified: July 15, 2013 at 3:37 pm •  Published: July 16, 2013
Advertisement is my newest best friend. Snopes helps sort out truth from fiction. Why my best friend? Because as author Adam Osborne said, “People think computers will keep them from making mistakes. They're wrong. With computers you make mistakes faster.”

Just as quickly as mistakes are made, readers respond by letting me know. In response to the July 4 column about the American flag, Deborah Gillson, Edward King and Cheryl Tobin were respectful and kind, but the message was clear, “You have fallen for an urban myth.”

I thanked them. I apologized. I did my homework. As to the folding of the flag, Snopes says neither Congress nor federal laws related to the flag assigns any special meaning to the 13 individual folds.

However, there is no shortage of scripts with specific meanings that have been devised for special occasions such as Memorial Day and Veterans Day or a retirement ceremony.

Upon request, these scripts can be read aloud during a flag folding. I found five scripts at — one of which is the script, religious in nature, that was printed in the July 4 column and was likely penned by an anonymous chaplain at the U.S. Air Force Academy.

These associations are “real” in the sense they mean something to the people who participate in the ceremony, but they are not the reason why a flag is folded in the traditional, 13-step manner.

As to the 21-gun salute, it is often confused with the symbolic act of firing three volleys at military funerals, but these are two completely different rituals, according to Snopes and the Department of the Navy.

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