Your Money: When dating, when is it appropriate to talk finances?

Dave Ramsey: When is it appropriate to let someone you're dating know about your financial situation?
By Dave Ramsey For The Oklahoman Published: November 26, 2012
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DEAR DAVE: I'm in a very fortunate position when it comes to my finances. I'm 25 and I make $50,000 a year. I'm also completely debt-free. In your opinion, when is it appropriate to let someone you're dating know about your financial situation?

Anonymous

DEAR ANONYMOUS: Wow, you are in a great position for someone so young. I'm not sure how you got there, but it certainly wasn't by being dumb or immature.

I think it's only natural in a dating situation to reveal more about oneself as time passes and the relationship gets deeper and more serious. In my mind, people who start throwing around financial information on a first date are either extremely superficial or just plain weird.

But after you've been dating a while, and definitely before you're engaged, you should know everything about the other person. There should be complete disclosure in every area of your lives. That's called intimacy. There's no room for skeletons in the closet when it comes to a healthy relationship.

Just take your time. Then, as the relationship progresses, the depth of intimacy and the depth of information will progress in all areas of your lives.

Dave

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